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By Sexless from Texas - 24/04/2015 11:38 - United States - San Antonio

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Today, I learned that, when you ask your girlfriend "Do you think we're having sex too often?" she might interpret it as, "I don't think we should have sex ever again," and entirely stop talking to you. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 081
You deserved it 13 843

Same thing different taste

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FusionPlacebo 26

Is it bad to have lots of sex with her? Why'd you even ask that, of course she's bound to get offended by it

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I've actually had this problem in a relationship. Sex was basically all we did together because we had busy schedules. We realized that's not what we wanted for our relationship so had less sex. Easy fix. I think it's sweet that op wants to be sure the relationship is more than just sex.

THANK YOU! Sex is great. But "too much sex" is definitely a thing and it can take over a relationship. I's really sweet of OP just to check in and make sure his girlfriend doesn't feel used or unhappy with the situation.

Did u also ask her "are we talking too much" or else why would she even stop talking.. lol.. on a side note, that's a question u should never ask

PePziNL 20

She really ovaryacted on this one.

Xandrick 22

All these comments... So wait, men aren't allowed to have their own limits on sex as well? Oh wait, sorry, I forgot only women can control the sexual domain in a relationship...

Love the name, OP! I like the advice an above comment suggested- frame it to be from your standpoint, "Am I asking for it too much?". Unless you're unhappy about the frequency, in which case, toys might be worth looking into ;)

To everyone telling OP they should be grateful and asking what's wrong with them, shame on you! Not everyone has the same sex drive. Even if they do like sex, no one deserves to be forced into things they're not into. I'm sure this will get downvoted but I hope the OP sees and knows it's not an unreasonable question, though perhaps it could have been worded better.

I'm pretty sure all the people saying those kind of comments are joking around. You'd have to be pretty stupid or immature to not realize that there can be too much sex in a relationship, and that if either person is unhappy with the sexual relationship than that is a huge problem in the relationship. There are many relationships where all they do is have sex and they never talk or hang out or do things together, which will inevitably make one person eventually feel like they're just being used for sex and make them unhappy. (Not saying this is op's problem, but just using an explanation of a relationship where too much sex is an issue)