By SkeetinKeaton - 05/06/2013 15:24 - United States

Today, I let my step-father know exactly what I thought of him. After a few moments of awkward silence, he leaned towards me and quietly whispered, "Well you're adopted. Your parents never loved you." FML
I agree, your life sucks 59 048
You deserved it 14 521

Same thing different taste

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How insensitive. Sorry you had to listen to that.

You obviously have parents who loved you. You were special enough that you were chosen to be their child.

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You get out what you put in. You can't bitch someone out then get mad if they hit back. Just remember that people in weak positions take low shots. Step dad was obviously just trying to hurt you, but also, if you can't take it don't dish it out!

He just said that due to your words...he probably does deep down but wanted to make you feel what he felt...

zafan123 6

Well you should have never disrespected him in the first place. It's hard enough he has to try and be a dad. Now he has to be put down by the kid he's try to father.

Uhhhh... nope. Just because he's a step-parent, that doesn't mean he's a good one. Mine was emotionally and physically abusive, and tried to establish a relationship out of fear with me. Should I respect her because she "tried"? No, I shouldn't, because of all of the fear and emotional damage that came out of it. If OP "disrespected" his step-father, there was probably a good reason for it.

No. No decent parent deliberately inflicts emotional (or other) wounds on any child, no matter how they're behaving. A parent's role is to model appropriate behaviour (among other things). His response was cruel and inappropriate.

I bet you Felt that Comeback Harder then He Did#XD

Your step dad is a proven asshole to what you have already thought about him in the first place by coming back with that remark not knowing the circumstances of your real parents as to why they had given you up in the first place. Now I don't know for certain if you refer to "step dad" as in your adoptive father or adoptive mothers boyfriend and not the initial man she may have been with at the time of your adoption. If its from column B, you have a mother that I assume loves you regardless if you're not her biological child. If its column A... Same thing applies unless your step dad really does love you and what you have told him in disagreement hurt him to respond like that. Some how I don't sense that is the case though and he really is a terrible father to you. I am sorry to read that OP.

23Z9TZO 18

Pretty good comeback stepdad, kudos

Doesn't adopted mean that they do love you, if they chose you to be their family?? Sorry OP.

jem970 19

That, in my book, is grounds for an ass kicking. That was the most jack-ass move I have ever heard of. Tell your mother and if she doesn't believe you then you need to move in with your dad (if you can). That man needs to be put in his place.

tehdarkness 21

Well, is what he said true?