By Anonymous - 17/08/2009 20:02 - Canada

Today, I ran into a guy that I had gone on a few dates with 3 months ago and slept with him a few times, but then never heard from him again. When he looked at me, I went over and gave him a hug and said "Hey, how are you, Chris?". He hugged me back and said "Hey there cutie, what's your name?". FML
I agree, your life sucks 47 962
You deserved it 18 043

Same thing different taste

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manoverboard 0

Gah, you are awkward! He obviously doesn't want to hear from you again. Why are you initiating hugs?

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newguy12 0

1st, you haven't heard from him in a few months, you expected he waited to meet you again? 2nd, LatinoHeat, stop being a ******

adiaboe27 4

Hmm, this is why we should all wait to have sex until marriage.

And that's what you get for being a ****. You see, sympathy is only warranted when you are undeserving of the result. But this was of your own doing. In short; you do something stupid, you deal with it.

boatkicker 4

Okay, OP. Yeah I suppose that does suck, but my sympathy is limited. You brought it on yourself. You said yourself that you only went on a few casual dates. Obviously that's not a lot of time to get to know someone. That means, you don't know him very well. Why are you upset that someone you dont know, doesnt know you either? Sleeping with someone doesnt mean he's going to remember you. Sleeping with someone doesnt mean anything unless you've been dating that person for a long time. Otherwise, it doesnt mean anything, except that neither of you puts a lot of emotion into sex. That's your business. IMO you shouldnt be sleeping with someone you barely know. It makes you seem like a ****, regardless of how you are with other guys or at other times. However my opinoin on sex doesnt matter. What matters is that you're a fool for being upset that a guy doesnt remember you, when clearly, you didnt have enough time to make an impression.

ohreally123 0

so you gave yourself away to a guy that easily and you're upset that he doesn't remember you Sweetie, you need standards

I sort of understand 123sploosh's point. It seems that lately, every woman on earth who is having sex is being called a ****. Maybe I just have a different definition of "****" than others, but (to me) a **** is a girl who sleeps around with multiple guys, not have sex multiple times with one man. Also, there may be a lot more to the relationship between the two than the word count would allow. Perhaps he was a complete sweetheart, and it seemed as though he really cared, and not all girls can see through guys' bullshit. Another thing to keep in mind is that he cut it off. Maybe the OP wanted more of a relationship, therefore taking away the "****" aspect of it all (since as far as I know, ***** don't want relationships or commitment). Just a few thoughts.

spongebobrocks 0

I agree with your definition of *****, but... I think what these people are trying to say, the reason they're calling her a ****, is because she had sex with him so quickly. As many of them said "few dates"... "slept a few times"... It indicates in a way that she slept with him on those "dates".. That's why they're calling her a ****, for sleeping with him so soon.

Mmmkay, fair enough. Though, I have a question (and this is /not/ a sarcastic remark, I'm actually really just curious), how long should a girl date a guy before it's considered not slutty to sleep with him? It seems like everyone has different ideas regarding girls and slutty behavior.

spongebobrocks 0

I... Have no idea, honestly. Perhaps... When she feels most comfortable with it... But then that depends on the girl... And there will always be people who will consider it slutty that she got comfortable with it so quickly so. I have no freaking idea, love xD

xD I now see why so many girls are called *****, and why so many other girls are too afraid to do anything due to the fear of being called a ****. Oh, society...