Hopefully you guys can resolve the conflict that exist between you two, as a person only has so much time on earth. Don't want it to be late & then regret not having a good relationship. As mention, try counseling, and if it doesn't work at least you know you tried.

No more gifts to her next year!

What a child your mother is

your mom seems immature.. take care of your heart, surround yourself with positive vibes and people who value you. best of luck!

The catch 22 is that if you don't get that ungrateful woman a present next year, you'll still be the bad guy to her. Some people just can't be pleased. It must really suck though, being that bitter.

My mom's like that with gifts. She will be extremely specific in telling you what she wants and sometimes despite your best efforts the gift is not good enough and she acts like you must not love her because of it.

That's when you say, "oops, I wrapped the wrong present, that one was not meant for you" then take the present back and give her nothing.

I'm sorry OP, family troubles aren't fun especially in that moment. Good luck!

My mum is the same. We really don't get on and in previous years she has picked up gifts that she has received from friends, shook them in my presence, decided they are alcohol (she doesn't drink) directly given it to me and said 'here, you can have this' as my gift. Nice.

What did you get her?