By henley - 23/07/2012 01:33

Today, I told my boyfriend that I didn't want to go out with him because I was having a fat day. After ten minutes of fighting, he threw a ring box on the floor and stormed out. I basically refused his proposal because of my body issues. FML
I agree, your life sucks 11 767
You deserved it 69 870

Same thing different taste

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1221jamw 11

Well I don't understand why he couldnt of done it another day, but then again I've never planned to propose.. But I also hate how girls will look pretty and find something small thats wrong with them and complain about it..

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mowmowlife 21

You were having a fat day? Poor baby. Not to mention all those people who are overweight and get on with their lives. I'm almost sympathetic toward you, but the only thing you said that stopped you was how you felt about your perceived appearance. Come on OP.

xrawritsashleyx 11

am i the only one who doesnt neccesarily thinks she deserves it? none of us know how much she weighs and what she looks like really. the way i read this is she just didnt feel like going out to eat that specific night bc she was in one of those "eat everything in sight" moods.. girls get that a lot, especially before and on their periods... in my opinion i just see this FML as her boyfriend overreacting. he could have waited a couple of days to do it, he didnt have to overreact like a baby... not every single lady out there wants to go out to eat everytime their man asks them..

I agree. If he really wants to marry her, his reaction to her not wanting to go out on the day of his planned proposal should be more along the lines of "That's disappointing; I guess I'll have to ask her tomorrow" instead of "Fine then! I'll throw the ring box at her so she'll see what she's missing!"

It's obvious you aren't male. Proposing to someone is a huge deal and you don't just shrug it off and "try again tomorrow". The act of proposing is a major move for the individual, that often takes a lot of time, effort and planning.

xrawritsashleyx 11

yes that is true, speaking for myself im not a male, but if i was a male and was planning to propose, i wouldnt act like a baby if my girlfriend didnt want to go out that night. obviously she didnt know she was going to get proposed tooo.. he could have reacted differently, like may something like "can we do this tomorrow night or a night this week?" and maybe try to make an agreement with her. if he had reservations, then that really sucks, but throwing the ring box down like a 12 year old throwing a tantrum? it almost seems like hes not even ready to get married.. she didnt know he was going to propose and he should have reacted more mature

255, You don't seem to be understanding how proposals work. And when its accepted that women can snap over the smallest things at the wedding I don't think you've got anything to stand on.

lol this one just pisses me off. you're a **** for not going to dinner with someone who loves you and could care less what you look like! if he didn't like the way you looked he wouldn't have asked you out to dinner in the first place. who cares if you're having a fat day? He doesn't! so get over yourself.

I would have just stormed out myself. Now he has to come back for the ring.

Regardless of how she felt the only person on earth who she should have cared about opinion-wise is her boyfriend. OP was either being petty and selfish or she wants other guys approval.

YOU R A BITCH !!!!!! Poor guy must feel like crap u u have to apologize to him

A fat day?? You don't deserve a guy like him! Give him back the ring! I hope he moves on & finds someone more deserving of him! A "fat day"? What the hell is up with that? Maybe I'm old but, I don't get it!

Fat problems aren't worth missing out on a great date for!!! Obviously he loves you just the way you are, so you should too!! :) don't worry so much what people think