By henley - 23/07/2012 01:33

Today, I told my boyfriend that I didn't want to go out with him because I was having a fat day. After ten minutes of fighting, he threw a ring box on the floor and stormed out. I basically refused his proposal because of my body issues. FML
I agree, your life sucks 11 767
You deserved it 69 870

Same thing different taste

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1221jamw 11

Well I don't understand why he couldnt of done it another day, but then again I've never planned to propose.. But I also hate how girls will look pretty and find something small thats wrong with them and complain about it..

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batummshakalaka 1

What the **** is a "fat day"?

ellytoad 13

I don't think the average person has such dramatic occurrences of self-consciousness that they won't go out into public, despite the adamant pleading of someone who obviously cared very much about you. Ten whole minutes! Maybe this is a good indicator of the possibility of deeper issues. Or maybe not. Good luck next time, I guess.

Today, I was going to propose to my girlfriend on our date today but she had a "fat day". After ten minutes of arguing, I gave up. Apparently, my girlfriends body is more important than her boyfriend. FML

susanturk66 4

Aww poor guy :( beauty is in the eye of the beholder hunny. If he finds you attractive then say **** everyone else and let yourself shine. Bigger is beauty the skinny girls have nothing on a girl that has meat on her bones it's just that guys are stupid and think that they have to be with a skinny girl well most of them like to have something to grab on to. I'm sure you are beautiful. :)) and he obviously wants to spend his life with you so go get something that you feel hot in and go out have a good time with the person that loves you for you and say **** skinny bitches!! :D

Normally when I read anything about someone's weight, I get angry at people saying they're fat because only one body type is accepted in society. But this is where I draw the line - a fat day and you couldn't go out and have fun? You're as bad as the people who bash other people for being heavy. You were afraid you wouldn't look like a model outside so you stayed in and whined to your boyfriend about it, thus resulting in no proposal for you. I'm glad he didn't propose, you sound like a self-centered brat who needs to realize that you don't have to be a stick to leave the house. A fat day? More like a PMS day, the fat caused by bloating...for once, I can say YDI on a fat FML.

Mademoiselle_fml 34

Yes, we get bloated on our periods. It happens. But she's still stupid for not going. If my boyfriend told me to go somewhere and I said I was having a fat day and he insisted, then I'd go. Wear a loose shirt or dress or something, geez...

sounds like it's your turn to step up OP - you got some making up to do, so grab that ring box, take him out to a nice dinner and propose to him :P

laylay33 6

Literally want to throw something at you to make you understand that you should get off your ass and go out because you obviously miss out on things when you don't... Even of you are fat he was gonna ask you to marry him anyway. Get over yourself.

Bludmagnus 13

I don't blame the poster of this FML for having a "fat day", nor for her denying the trip out for what she later learned was a proposal. I blame her, and every other woman on here, for believing every word of those "women's magazines" that are not really helpful, but designed by other women to make as many women that are not them feel like crap. Body issues are NORMAL... believing that they should interfere with everyday life to that extend is not.

It's a sad reflection on the psychological state of women in this society when 'fat day' is a thing.