By henley - 23/07/2012 01:33

Today, I told my boyfriend that I didn't want to go out with him because I was having a fat day. After ten minutes of fighting, he threw a ring box on the floor and stormed out. I basically refused his proposal because of my body issues. FML
I agree, your life sucks 11 767
You deserved it 69 870

Same thing different taste

Top comments

1221jamw 11

Well I don't understand why he couldnt of done it another day, but then again I've never planned to propose.. But I also hate how girls will look pretty and find something small thats wrong with them and complain about it..

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Alastrina_fml 20

At some point, the OP needs to go apologize to her boyfriend, provided he still wants to deal with her.... There's a line between reassurance and fishing for compliments and it sounds like the boyfriend got fed up with kissing her self-absorbed ass.

sovietonion 9

I agree; there's a line between normal insecurity and becoming an emotional vortex, and fighting with him for ten minutes about something that was clearly in her head demonstrates exactly on which side of that line the OP falls. :/

pigbilly 0

My girlfriends father tells her she's fat, but she believes she is the most amazing person in the world because I say so. The only words that should affect your mood, are the words of your lover.

LadyEmi 15

I don't see why you couldn't just get over yourself.

Don't let your insecurities stop you from living* your life

I guess I can see both viewpoints. Sometimes, you just don't feel like going out. But if he spent a lot of money and/or time planning things, then he'd be upset if he didn't get to go through with it. They both could have handled it better, IMO.

I think I agree with you. Both are right in a sense. But also, both could have communicated their issues more clearly and could have been a bit more understanding as well...

You're a ****. Seriously, men love their women no matter how they look. He just wanted to be with you.

Wow, that's pretty immature of him. He definitely shouldn't have thrown the ring box and stormed out like that.

Alastrina_fml 20

"Fat day"? How vain can you possibly get? Learn to love your body and get the f*ck over it. YDI