By _RaeRae - 18/11/2014 09:26 - United States - Argyle

Today, I told my mom that my boyfriend, who I've been living with for a year, and I were moving to another state at the end of the month. I told her in a restaurant, over lunch, where she then just got up and left me there without saying a word. FML
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_RaeRae tells us more.

I didn't have enough room to elaborate on my post. it was spur of the moment on my part too. boyfriend is in the oilfield and they needed him up and moved ASAP. so she new a week after I knew. I just needed a week for it to set in.

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Nightwing98 22

Maybe she wanted more than 2 weeks notice that you were leaving.

usnwife 18

That changes my opinion a little! We're a military family, so I understand short notice. Doesnt make it any easier for your mom to process though... Especially if you havent discussed marriage with him your mom may be worried about you leaving to follow a boy you have no commitment with. Hopefully it all works out!!

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Your mom loves you so much. The thought of you going away breaks her heart.

I'm guessing she didn't know how to react.

Parvati48 15

Wow...that sucks she just left but it's your fault for only giving her two weeks notice that you were leaving.

Mooglefox 23

Maybe she wanted to know that you have a guy

clue_me_in 20

If OP has the right to move, then her mother has the right to walk out from a public place instead of making a scene. Maybe she got emotional and didn't want to cry in front of everyone. Breaking news like that to your mother in a public place maybe wasn't the best choice. Give her a day or two, OP.

TallMist 32

Let her get mad. You've been living out of her house for a year now, you have every right to move out of state. Regardless of her opinion on it.