By RedLust - 14/11/2009 04:23 - Bolivia

Today, I told my wife to block the mail of her ex (because he was sending her romantic mails) or I would leave. She told me that I could leave. FML
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First of all I have already left (thanks for the support people), and second of course I discussed with her that that was wrong, and she thought otherwise so I had no other option to give the ultimatum. I f you want to be with me then why do you need your past? And women if you need more romance say something don’t look for it in other places, because if we men need more BJ (Just an example) or whatever you wouldn’t like us to be getting in other place right? Some things are important for some people and other things for others.

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Why would you want to be with a woman like that anyway? Screw her. Move on.

Why would she want to keep receiving the messages, though? That's why this is so wrong. Maybe OP shouldn't have put an ultimatum on his wife, but the fact that she'd rather keep getting romantic messages from her ex than be with her husband brands her as a major bitch that needs to be left.

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BikerMike 0

While being upset about romantic notes from her ex is understandable, you do not own your wife and you can't unilaterally tell her what to do. YDI for being an ass.

leave the op alone. it's not controlling. if she didin't like her ex she wouldn't talk to him or enjoy readig his romantic emails. which means if the op went to a trip pr something she would cheat. wouldn't you say if you cheat on me I'm leaving. no one likes wives or husbands who are likely to cheat sorry if this doesn't make sense

ileenefudge 29

The way it sounds, the OP is trying to be controlling and as some of the previous commenters have said, he is basically trying to tell her who she can and can not talk to, and she basically told him to screw off, thus the FML. OP is not her parent, so he has no right to tell her that. If I were in her shoes I woulda said the same thing myself. OP deserves it.

Get out of there while you can. If my wife was pulling that shit she'd be gone in a second.

You gave her an ultimatum. What did you expect??? If I was given an ultimatum I'd leave just on a principle. YDI

Maybe she's close friends with her ex? Not that he should send her emails like that.. But don't you trust her? ___Men can be jerks. Women are stupid. I'm living proof___

First of all I have already left (thanks for the support people), and second of course I discussed with her that that was wrong, and she thought otherwise so I had no other option to give the ultimatum. I f you want to be with me then why do you need your past? And women if you need more romance say something don’t look for it in other places, because if we men need more BJ (Just an example) or whatever you wouldn’t like us to be getting in other place right? Some things are important for some people and other things for others.

Spitfire86 0

ah, see I didn't know you had disscussed it with her. You did the right thing. Now that you clear things up about it. Sounds likke lack of communication.

OP, you should reply to top, so people stop making dumb comments.

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What would be her side of it? What side is there to have? Is it so hard to block someone who keeps trying to hook up with you despite the fact you're married? What kind of person wouldn't do that initially, or at least tell them to back off? Oh, right, a self-centered, attention-whoring bitch.