By RedLust - 14/11/2009 04:23 - Bolivia
RedLust_fml tells us more.
First of all I have already left (thanks for the support people), and second of course I discussed with her that that was wrong, and she thought otherwise so I had no other option to give the ultimatum. I f you want to be with me then why do you need your past? And women if you need more romance say something don’t look for it in other places, because if we men need more BJ (Just an example) or whatever you wouldn’t like us to be getting in other place right? Some things are important for some people and other things for others.
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YDI for marrying a **** and controlling one
YDI for not telling the whole story and having a limp dick.
Good riddance. Women are much more adept at cheating than men and more likely to do so as well. They're just better at hiding it. If she's accepting romantic e-mails from her ex, then you can bet she's been messing around. Get out before you get an STD.
YDI. Don't give a woman an ultimatum, it will tell her you're just some controlling fool she doesn't want to be with.
YDI. Don't give a woman an ultimatum, it will tell her you're just some controlling fool she doesn't want to be with.
Cool Bolivia. Hello! :) Hmmm, that's awful for you. I'm sure it didn't feel good knowing she was getting mails from her ex, but you have to remember she married you :) Also, I don't know your situation, but is it that easy to end the relationship? Perhaps both of you overreacted in the heat of the moment. Good luck on your marriage.
my brother was in the same situation. She left him and now he's got a prettier girlfriend and he's super happy. just leave her, no one deserves crap like that.
So you don't trust your wife with her ex because she chose you over her ex and he won't let go? So to handle this insecurity... you try to dictate how she lives her life instead of talking it over with her? And you threatened to take your ball and go home if she didn't do what you wanted? How is this a FML? It's a FHL. It wouldn't surprise me if she dumps you after seeing how untrusting and controlling you can be when you don't get your way.
shes a *****, dont worry bout it...
I agree with the OP. U don't need your past. Your ex is your ex for a reason so why still talk to them???
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Why would you want to be with a woman like that anyway? Screw her. Move on.
Why would she want to keep receiving the messages, though? That's why this is so wrong. Maybe OP shouldn't have put an ultimatum on his wife, but the fact that she'd rather keep getting romantic messages from her ex than be with her husband brands her as a major bitch that needs to be left.