By MenSuck - 01/09/2009 03:56 - United States

Today, I told the guy I have been sort of dating that I want to connect emotionally before sleeping with him. He told me that he already had an emotional connection with his fiancée and was only interested in sleeping with me. FML
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Just to clear the air: 1.I'm not a ****, obviously, since I didn't sleep with the creep 2.I did not know about the girl 3.Sort of dating means: going on dates, kissing, holding hands, but not boyfriend/girlfriend (aka that weird stage when your facebook relationship status goes blank or to it's complicated) 4.Trust me, I ran very fast, and there were no obvious warning signs 5.Thanks for reading.

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mehwhateverr 0

well, when it comes to guys, basically its: handsome, mentaly stable, and single, except you can only pick 2

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YDI 15 times for having your name be MenSuck. Women suck and that proves it.

screwtaylor must be sleeping, so I will say this on her behalf: THREESOME! Imagine the kind of emotional connection you'll build if you're porking the same girl! The fiancee ought to want that, too, because she's marrying a guy she is going to be sharing with the rest of the female gender anyways. Party on!

agreed plexico. a threesome is definitely in order here

I wouldn't say that Captain_Jello, It's just that fidelity is too boring to talk about. Also, people who are having all the hot, steaming sex the want at home are not likely to be trolling the internet for fresh flesh.

I gotta go with plexico on this. There are those of use out there whom don't go trolling outside our relationships. You don't often hear about us wholesome folks because we don't go on and on on the internet about our hot ass at home because we don't wnat all the nasty skanks trying to steal our good men.

Suaria 38

I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and 2 months have been long distance. I have never once cheated on him nor even thought about cheating on him. I also know he has never cheated on me and he never would. So fidelity is still alive, you just need to find the right sort of people.

the fact that this is mostly what's out there in the dating world is why I'd rather go through life single. who needs that shit?

"If you do not wait at least 2 weeks before giving him sex, and you don't bond with him first, he is almost always going to simply view you as a ****." You're a ******* moron... Sleeping with someone with no long-term commitment in mind means your a **** not the time frame. Also, it sickens me that society fails to see the flaws in the view "Sleeping with somebody and not really know them makes the woman a ****" What the ****? wouldn't that make BOTH people "easy" or "*****"? Put your finger on the trigger and ******* pull it "pimpin88".

not voting. It depends. If you knew he had a fiance then you deserve it. If not that sucks.

all this advice from someone whose name is "pimpin"?

visage 0

Hhahahahha! Honestly, the vast majority of us [men] don't give a rats ass about an emotional connection. All we want is to rip your panties off, tickle your bellybutton from the inside and send you on your walk of shame..

visage 0

It's great you're the shining example of what many of us are not, but your single reply has proven my point :)

Fooberry 9

At least he's honest about what he wants. Get out of that "relationship". He's already taken, and he only wants you for sex.