who knows if it's even true. people say weird stuff when they take strong medicine.

Sometimes the problem is the fact that a guy will go to the ends of the earth to make it happen. (Especially if he is one of the types who feels like he isn't enough of a man if the woman doesn't ******.) Some women literally can't ****** from sex for whatever reason or they don't always ****** but still enjoy the ride. At the same time, some men are absolutely shattered if they cannot make their gal have the big O, even if she is fine with not having one. Sometimes women do it out of guilt, pressure, or to make the guy just drop it because he makes it a bigger deal than it should be. I think it's lame, but I can understand the reasoning behind some of these kinds of situations. Communication and understanding are vital and can solve all sorts of these problems, but some people are too bullheaded/stuck in their ways to get past it.

54, yesss! I don't always ****** and it's not because of poor performance from anyone, it's just how my body works. I always enjoy sex, it's just that I don't always reach climax and that's fine by me. My boyfriend on the other hand still has trouble with that. I will confess that I have faked a couple for him just so he wouldn't get all mopey, and I wouldn't have to explain it to him again that it's okay and I enjoyed it regardless. But I don't do that anymore, he is learning it just takes a while.

well next time dont get high on pain meds

The band Korn or the food corn?

I think if you need to fake an ****** for sex to stop, or so your partner wont be mopey there's some serious issues. He probably needs help with his self confidence if an ****** is that important he won't stop. My fiancé understands me not always wanting/needing/being able to ****** and that does nothing to his self esteem. We have good communication and he understands I still enjoy it. I have never faked an ******. The most I've done is exaggerate moans at his request.

You shouldn't fake it. He will never get it right if he already thinks he is doing it right!

When it comes a shock to the partner of a girl faking orgasms I really wonder.... It's kind of obvious if the female hasn't gotten an ****** before :/ no mater how much moaning and groaning she does you can always feel it inside ! I feel for OP though... Pain medication can be a total bitch sometimes.

Who else thought it said ****?

life is full of suprises enjoy this