By pissed off mother - 05/05/2016 17:55 - United Kingdom - Leeds

Today, I was out shopping with my son and unbeknownst to me, he had secretly added a bunch of expensive games he wanted to the trolley. I was too embarrassed at the till to make a fuss as there was a huge line behind me. I watched as my normal £50 shopping bill climbed to over £400. FML
I agree, your life sucks 6 150
You deserved it 21 046

Same thing different taste

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Here's an idea. Put the damn games back and discipline your kid.

Sorry if this sounds harsh, but you need to take control of your life before your son ends up the most spoiled, demanding child you've ever met. You taught him a lesson today - "Mom won't cause a scene, so I can get away with whatever I want in a public place".

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I'm sorry to be negative about this, but that is insane. Just say it was a mistake at the till point and have them taken off the bill. Paying an extra £350 is just crazy, unless you have money to burn without batting an eyelid. If the latter is the case, then is not really a FML

I'm sorry but are you kidding me? You just let your child bully you into buying him expensive things, and he's going to think his behavior is acceptable. YOU'RE the parent. You're in charge, not him.

As a cashier myself it's ok if you tell the person that you don't want them as long as it's before they ring it up.

Goumada13 1

Why does it matter if it is rung up? Just because you scan an item doesn't mean the customer is obligated to buy it.

I think ringing it up means that if you don't want it, transaction has to start again. Obviously the customer has no obligation, it's just a question of how long it takes.

st3phani3b 21

People get up to the checkout and decide they don't want things all the time. If you give in to your kid and just keep the games it will happen again.

RA91 26

The queen herself could have been behind me in line...those games would have still going back

You must be stressed out and were at the end of your day because I have been there too and this ONE TIME won't make him think he can do it all the time - sometimes you have to let kids get away with things and if you can afford the extra money and it saved u some stress then you did what was best at that moment - hang in there and now you can take them back or make him donate them to someone that can't afford those games...??????

Please don't have children. At least not until you have a more responsible mindset.

Seriously. If you have kids, I suggest you learn how to parent them. Letting them get away with racking up hundreds of dollars like that is NOT okay, in any circumstances.

Talis99 26

Wow. Do not give people this mindset. Ever heard of give an inch, they'll take a mile? Kids always push. And they'll always remember. You're not an adult with this attitude.

Donate to some that can't afford the games? Op shouldn't have paid for the games in the first place. If she has any sense left she'll try to return them. Just because you can afford a loss doesn't mean it's okay to take the hit.

Donate to someone who can't afford games? If they can't even afford the games why would you think they can afford the console or whatever it is to play the game? If something that I didn't even want/plan to buy cost me a few hundred extra dollars, the last thing I'd do is donate it. I'd be returning it and getting my damn money back.

There's a big difference between a child sneaking in a couple pieces of candy compared to video games worth over $500. Something of this magnitude WILL affect them in the future because something this big just makes smaller infractions seem like nothing in comparison. As a former cashier, it takes literally five seconds to say, "My kid snuck these games into the cart can you return them please?" and hand them over, it's not holding up anyone. There was absolutely no judgement for doing so, and it's better that than a child using their parent like a doormat.

Never be a parent, #39. You'd be ******* terrible at it. When a child pushes boundaries, you push back and establish where the line is because you are the parent, not them. Letting them "get away with it" is only ever going to end badly. Children are inherently selfish and will not let things go; this isn't me bashing children, they have to learn what's acceptable and what's not, and they learn that from their primary caregivers. That's why you set boundaries. Let them get away with something once, and they will assume that's the norm. If you buy a child an ice cream after school one day, you can be damned sure they will ask if they can have ice cream after school the next day - that's the point where you say no and establish that you call the shots. Same thing here - kid puts things in the cart, parent buys them, and then the child thinks that what they've done is acceptable and they will then continue to do it. Then you'll end up with bigger problems down the line when you try to break the habit, they will push back ten times harder because that routine you've set has been broken.

Parenting fail. Your pride is not worth letting your son get away with things like that.

Time to start doing your job! You are the parent not him, start to stop caring what strangers might think, and start parenting. Because right now, he knows he will get what he wants in the store.

It's really THAT embarrassing for you to tell the cashier that you don't want the games, or even just leave them beside the till? You must have noticed them before they were scanned. I'm sorry, but YDI.

Ack, what an an awful situation. Most check out registers have a "save transaction" button, so if you're stuck like this again, you can ask the cashier to save the transaction, and if they have enough staff, get one of them to make your kid walk back and return every item he tried to take to its shelf.