im sorry OP. If your boyfriend is so stupid that he made plans with another girl while still video chatting wth you, you deserve much much better. He couldve hung up first, or better yet, not made the plans with the other girl at all, during the video chat or not.

Was it actually a date? I have a hard time believing someone could be so stupid as to cheat right in front of you. Could he not have been just planning to hang out with a female friend?

I would have ended the video chat, why sit there and listen to it all

You mean ex boyfriend, right?

Doesn't mean he's ******* the girl. He can hang out with other people.

Hey hey hey, calm your ****. I recommend Aloe Vera Topical Cream. But seriously, he probably didn't think of it as a date, more like hanging out with a chick he's friends with. Don't explode everything out of proportion so easily. If you're concerned about him and this other girl, talk about it with him, and then he'll realize what it looked like, and forgive you. Please don't dump him like everyone is saying just because.

I know it's an FML, but dumping could be an overreaction, what if he was making a date with his mom. Like, once he was done, he could be asking OP to come and meet the parents?

What makes you so sure it was a date? Maybe you are just paranoid. Just because he makes plans with another girl does not make it a date lol

have you considered it was maybe a relative? If not, there's always hitmen for hire.

Are you sure you're not reading more into it than there is? People can go and have lunch together without anything more to it.