By lonerboner - 03/10/2012 13:47 - United States

Today, I went on a date to the movies with this guy I kinda like. When he was driving me home, he asked me to be his girlfriend; I said I couldn’t because it was really bad timing. He kicked me out of the car, called me an asshole, and made me walk home. FML
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qtbabe127 22

OP said she kind of liked him, so she must have been feeling it to some degree. She wasn't expecting him to ask her to be his girlfriend on the very first date. That's not realistic. She didn't say she didn't want things to go further in the future, she just didn't want things to go further right now.

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sheethapins 13

Just because she kind of likes him doesn't mean she should automatically accept. Could be she got out of a relationship recently and wanted to take it slow, or perhaps she just wanted to get to know him a bit better. Might have been going through a complicated time in her life... We really don't know but at least she was honest and didn't jump into what could possibly have been a bad relationship judging by his actions.

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silencebabyy 23

well at least you found out what a jerk he is. sucks that you had to walk. idk why people said you deserved this i guess cause if its bad timing why are you dating but still you dont deserve this

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benmec 18

Hope you farted in his car then slammed the door really hard

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rebel_belle1974 5

OMG people its only a date! why can't the op just enjoy a relaxing date?!

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yeahreally 6

well at least now you know hes a psycho.

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etsun23 4

Saying that she was "leading him on" by going on a date with him is ridiculous. Taking someone on a date doesn't entitle you to anything (I think that's called prostitution), and saying that she should only date the guy if she wanted to have a relationship with him is juvenile. That's not how things work in the real world.

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kitkattgirl 2

I thought dates implied that you would soon become boyfriend/girlfriend. Am I not getting something here? I skipped the dating scene and went straight to marriage, so I think I'm naive on how dating works. I think this misunderstanding is why he was hurt. And I think OP needs to stop calling it a "date" when she had no intention of becoming his girlfriend. He should not have reacted that way, and things may have turned out for the better if he snapped like that. I would be pissed and humiliated for being rejected in that same manner. I can understand the other person saying that they didn't like the date and it would be a bad idea to get together. But saying that "it's bad timing" means you weren't serious at all. That's a big YDI for messing with his emotions.

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kdarkwood 15

Dates do not imply a soon-to-be relationship change. You date to get to know someone, and if it doesn't work out, then you stop dating.

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sargeantbilko 5

the guy should not be dating if he can't handle rejection.

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jimmyjazz24 4

Hahahshahaha that's funny as ****! Oh well he sounds like an insecure prick anyway

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sargeantbilko 5

the guy was a jerk. good thing she didn't get involved. accepting a date does not guarantee any further involvement in terms of having a relationship. Here is a question for those who think that OP owed the guy something -- how would you feel about the situation if he had demanded sex? does she own him that, as well? She did right to express her feelings honestly. I hope OP finds someone worthy of her soon.

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sorrowsangel89 1

Exactly! You really hit the point here. All those ppl who think OP deserved it have never been in the gray area of life, where you can't help but like someone but also don't want to get too serious.

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sorrowsangel89 1

Hope u don't still like him. ;p

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CastielJ 6

Don't lead him on than. I swear people now days.

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