By lonerboner - 03/10/2012 13:47 - United States

Today, I went on a date to the movies with this guy I kinda like. When he was driving me home, he asked me to be his girlfriend; I said I couldn’t because it was really bad timing. He kicked me out of the car, called me an asshole, and made me walk home. FML
I agree, your life sucks 18 061
You deserved it 37 248

Same thing different taste

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OP said she kind of liked him, so she must have been feeling it to some degree. She wasn't expecting him to ask her to be his girlfriend on the very first date. That's not realistic. She didn't say she didn't want things to go further in the future, she just didn't want things to go further right now.

Just because she kind of likes him doesn't mean she should automatically accept. Could be she got out of a relationship recently and wanted to take it slow, or perhaps she just wanted to get to know him a bit better. Might have been going through a complicated time in her life... We really don't know but at least she was honest and didn't jump into what could possibly have been a bad relationship judging by his actions.

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Going on a date in no way implies you will be in a relationship in any way. A date is a date. Nothing more.

What a jerk. Some guys don't realize that sometimes a date is just hanging out with someone, not trying to pick up a girlfriend.

A date is not hanging out, hanging out is hanging out. The way some of you are using the word date, you could have a "date" with 3 or 4 of your buddies all at once. Maybe you are just using a different term of the word, but the traditional use of the word date is 2 people who are intellectually and or sexually interested in eachother, going out into public as a couple, alone and sepperated from any other people that might ruin "them time". Date's are what you go on AFTER you have a boyfriend/girlfriend. I can see how a "first date" may be whether or not you can see being with someone, like testing your compatability as boyfriend/girlfriend, but it's always assumed and expected that you are testing out a relationship. Date's are not events. They are not just going out to town. That's what you do with friends, and friends don't "date" they hang out. Unless you want to date your friend, but then they become your boyfriend/girlfriend. It's fine if you say "I don't think it would be right to be your girlfriend right now" But that's essentially saying that the date went bad, or that you had no intention of a relationship. It wasn't even a date if you had no intention of at least trying a relationship. I'm not saying friends can't go out alone together, but we have other words for that in the english language. Date is not one of them, date assumes you are either already a couple, or testing out a new relationship.

Sinkhole 26

Funny thing... my dictionary says that a date is "a social or romantic appointment or engagement". It doesn't say anything about people having to be in a relationship already.

but why? why go on a ''date'' with a guy you barely like? why torture him and yourself by opening those cans of awkwardness? i'm sorry, but you deserved to get stranded...

olpally 32

Getting stranded and called an asshole is harsh, but you kinda deserve it for going out with him and giving him false hope and for a guy you "kinda like." you either fully on like him or you don't, jeez... That grey area brought on the shit storm you received... Fyl and ydi on both counts for this one, glad you're not going out with him now.

blackvyper 8

You won't make that mistake again will you?

Spottedfeather 7

He was a bit of a douche, but it was stupid to say, basically, you don't like him while you're in the car.