By lextoast - 26/07/2015 18:15 - Rwanda

Today, I went on a fabulous date with a really cute, smart, funny guy. He only mentioned his dad, so when I asked about his mom, I asked if they were divorced. She'd died of breast cancer so I felt awful. Then I asked if his dad had ever remarried. His stepmom had died of cancer too. FML
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That's just bad luck. I'm sure he understands--it's not like you could have known!

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I go through this allot with explaining to people about my mom and her committing suicide... Never easy, but you learn never to hold it against people who ask

I'm sure, if he was ready to date, he was ready to face questions about his past.

You shouldn't feel bad for that, I think you asked normal questions for a first date and there's no way you could have known all that beforehand. Don't beat yourself up about it. :)

He will get those questions from anyone, don't worry about it, you did nothing wrong, it could happen to anyone, and unfortunately he is going to have to accept that people are going to ask.

Big_Bear99 19

Yea, no way around those questions. You would find out either way.

Don't feel bad. You couldn't have known. On another note, let's hope somebody finds a cure for cancer soon.

I hope he understood that there was no way you could of known

No way you could have known, and family usually comes up on one of the first dates so he should expect it and be okay with it. It sucks to feel bad like that though.

He would understand completely. My mother also passed away from breast cancer, and I am not offended when someone mentions my mom. We understand it is not something obvious to others. On a side note, I hope overall the date went well.

mcore 19

That really sucks for him. But it's not like you could have known, and I'm sure he understands that.

At least he didn't get up and leave right?