By bradyman - 29/12/2009 15:09 - United States

Today, I went to the dentist after not being there for 3 years. I was told that I had loads of cavities and that I would need to pay $3,000 for a serious mouth surgery. The reason I hadn't been to the dentist in 3 years: I've been married to a dentist for 3 years that said my teeth were "perfect." FML
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thinmint 0

WTF ever. dentists lie and say you need all this surgery to get paid! I had 16 cavities once as a teen and did not have effing oral surgery. get a 2nd and 3rd opinion before you waste money and your insurance drop you.

You still need to go. They have the right tools to check on your teeth and gums.

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chances are if u told them u havent been to the dentist in 3yrs their going to tell u a bunch of bullshit just to get money out of u.. i dont think ur wife would lie to u about u needing surgery lol.. but if u actually do then yeah FYL.

I would check to see if your spouse is a real dentist. If they are then why don't you just go to your spouse instead of this other dentist.

Argmik 0

your spouse is paying for that shit

get a second oppinion. dentist can lie. they need the business.

weezyE 0

 bacteria causes cavities, not sugar. the bacteria feeds in sugar, it secretes acids and those acids along with plaque and other things wear down the enamel on your teeth. the bacteria is commonly passed from parent to child. those who think that cavities are strictly a hygiene YDI issue should get a grip. Candy isn't the only thing made of sugar. You can get a cavity from the sugar in fruits just as easy as you can from candy. true some people have horrible mouth hygiene, but while you sit and type YDI just remember plaque forms as fast as 5 minutes after you brush. your mouth probably isn't quite as clean as you think it is.  

So have your spouse fix your teeth... is s/he still charging you full price?

At least you have a Dentist-wife who can pay for it? Or perhaps can get you a surgery discount in her own office? Lousy deal, though. In the future you'll have to ignore your wife's 'professional' opinion!

I've said this before and I'll say it again: in the XXI century there is absolutely NO excuse to have cavities when you have access to a toothbrush, toothpaste, dental floss, and mouthwash. I realize not everyone has access to these things but anyone who can afford a computer and an internet connection can afford the tools for proper hygene. YDI for not taking better care of your teeth.

Or some people genetically have bad enamel on their teeth. It's rare that I get cavities, now, because I try to really take extra care of my teeth, but because I inherited bad enamel from my dad...I still get them.

Don't forget waterpiks, those things could help with gingivitis and all that junk. My dentist said that it would replace flossing (when you could use it of course). Amazing stuff we have these days.

False. My husband's back teeth have grown in a way that they've started further apart, but growing upwards they're now touching (so they kinda make a triangle between them). Obviously a toothbrush can't get between/underneath them, and it's difficult to get floss in there too. He's done a pretty good job of keeping them clean, but last time we went to the dentist the dentist said he had some little cavities in there. The dentist wasn't in a hurry to fill them though, coz he said sometimes if you do a good job of keeping little cavities clean, they fix themselves... but they seem to have grown so he'll prob have to get them filled when we go back next year. And he brushes, flosses, and uses mouthwash. Then you get people like me and my sister... growing up as kids, we both cleaned our teeth the same amount (in fact I probably cleaned mine more)... she didn't get a single cavity til she was 19, whereas I'd had several fillings by the time I finished primary school. (Then again when she was 4 a dentist said she had potentially cavity-prone teeth, so put an enamel covering on some of her back molars which probably helped). Yes, we have remarkable things that greatly assist in keeping our teeth healthy. But they are not 100% effective.

Gavik 0

Lilabitch, put down the book and make me a sandwich.

When my brother and I were young, we hated brushing our teeth (we both suffer from a condition that makes our skin, gums etc very sensitive). I would find ways to get out of it, where as my younger brother, afraid of getting told off, would put toothpaste in his mouth, but didn't brush. Since we are now both adults we have grown out of it, but in the whole of my life, including my rebelous non brushing days, I have only had 6 fillings (and two were on baby teeth). The only serious damage I have done as a adult, when I broke a tooth, despite good dental hygeine. My brothers teeth rotted because of the toothpaste and he has to visit the dentist every 6 months to make sure they aren't falling out. This makes me rather sceptical of people saying 'if you brush your teeth and floss and mouthwash and visit the dentist every year your teeth will be fine forever'. Mostly, because it's not true.

I totally agree. I don't drink soda or eat very sugary foods and brush at least twice a day and floss. I still have bad teeth. No matter what I always end up with a cavity when I go to the dentist. My dentist told me that some people just have bad teeth and the enamel isn't as strong as other peoples. Also it can be hereditary. My mom has had more dental problems than anyone I know and she has 9 implants in her mouth and unfortunately all her health/dental issues have been passed to me. So even if someone does brush & floss 2-3 times a day and regularly visit the dentist, they can still get loads of cavities.