Yep, 'cause that makes total sense.

you, obviously, can't spell asshole. lucky for you the rest of us can.

btw it's spelled asshole no w

what is wrong with you

Nothing is wrong with me. It's called common sense.

how is it common sense to marry someone after 3-6 months. that's crazy. then you'll wonder why the relationship fails in a year.

I'm not sure that counts as a marriage. After all, blow up dolls can't say "I do".

I like to think he was being facecious. Given the circumstances of the FML, the guy isn't marriage material, regardless of how many years they were together. If someone is truly willing to get married after 6 months, they have a lot to learn about human nature...

I have been married for 14 years to the same woman I married after 3 months of dating, and we have 3 kids. The women I broke up with after 6 months, I got news for you, none of them have gotten married because they wait too long to marry the person, they admitted to it. Marriage is a commitment, if it take 2 years to commit, than something is seriously wrong with that person and they aren't serious. You can't wait 2 years to be committed to a career, or else you're fired in a heartbeat. School is one thing, I never dated in high school or dated for over 6 months in university, and I've had a pretty successful life and marriage. When you're engaged, it means you already have a date set and are serious about getting married. I've seen many marriages fail because they were engaged for too long and dated too long, that includes close family and friends. You can only date for so long, why else do people cheat?

tl;dr

Skate you're an idiot. More marriages fail because people rush into them before they really get to know each other. I have yet to meet someone who broke up because they stayed together "too long" before getting married. My brother and his wife were together 4 years (and abstinent the whole time) before they got married. They've been married 8 years so together 12 years total with 2 kids. My grandparents dated for 2 years before they got married and they were together over 50. My fiancé's grandparents dated 7 years before they got married and are celebrating their 50th next month. My fiancé and I are going on 3 years. We've been engaged about 2 1/2 years but are waiting another year to get married. We'll have been together 4 years before we tie the knot because I am finishing college first. We know we're going to spend forever together, but I want my degree before I jump into housewife/mother mode. You, sir, are an idiot plain and simple.

It all depends on the people, their age and maturity levels. Circumstance has a lot to do with it. My parents were engaged after 6 weeks and married within 6. They were both 37, and now are about to reach 21 years of marriage. My boyfriend's parents were also engaged after 6 weeks but not married for over a year because his mum had to work abroad for a year, while he was still working in Scotland. They have 3 kids, the oldest is 28. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 6 months but are nowhere near marriage. I'm still at university and he works abroad. A long distance relationship of 6 months is probably equal to a normal one of 3 months. And at my age (19) I'm certainly not thinking of marriage or kids, though I can see myself with my current boyfriend in several years time.