By bezoar10 - 11/05/2009 19:46 - United States

Today, it's the five year anniversary of my father's death. I was cuddling with my boyfriend and crying about how much I missed him. He replied with, "Sometimes, I think you just like to hear yourself talk." FML
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that LITERALLY happened to me too like 3 years ago - I was upset and talking about how much i missed my father, who had passed 7 years earlier, and he goes "ya know, sometimes i think you just talk to hear yourself talk" - I got out before it was too late ;-)

kitties_fml 12

The people telling the OP to get over it are ******* retarded. You never fully "get over" the death of a parent. She didn't say she spends every day grieving and relying on others for support, she said ON THE ANNIVERSARY OF HIS DEATH she cried because she MISSED HER FATHER. jesus christ.

kellster 2

Get out of there now. Seriously, why waste your time? This asshole just made it clear that he couldn't possibly care less about you. I'm sorry about your father, too. I agree - anniversary days are hard! I hope otherwise, you're able to remember the good times. Hang in there.

#21 has obviously never lost a parent. Had the OP been crying on any average day to the lose of their dad then i can understand that comment, but on the day of their death, it can be a very tough thing. You have no idea what they are going through and you have no right to tell them to "get over it" just because it is 5 years later. Tomorrow will the 9th year since my father has passed and I will probably be in tears as well.

kayla_52088 0
kellster 2

Shameonmedude: Really. Shame on you, dude. Shut your mouth.

kellster 2

Shameonmedude: Really. Shame on you, dude. Shut your mouth.

seriously sweetie, let it out. there's nothing wrong with missing your dad.

rr_10 0

That's awful... :( Dump this guy.

I have to agree with #21 and #43. I lost my father six years ago when I was only 12 years old and I've definitely gotten over it. Obviously losing a parent or anyone for that matter is tough but still crying about them even though it's been so many years is just plain pathetic. The first few years (1-2, for me) was and always will be the hardest, of course, but if you're still bawling and essentially asking people to give you pity and feel sorry for you when it's been half a decade later makes me want to punch you in the face. If you do cry, keep it to yourself. Obviously if you just lost your father a few weeks, months or even just a year ago, then your boyfriend is a ass hole. But since it's been 5 years, YDI.