By bezoar10 - 11/05/2009 19:46 - United States

Today, it's the five year anniversary of my father's death. I was cuddling with my boyfriend and crying about how much I missed him. He replied with, "Sometimes, I think you just like to hear yourself talk." FML
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Same thing different taste

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jasmine1259 2

#123 you didn't say "some women can be bitches" you said "nearly every women on the planet". that's a lot more than some if you ask me.

I CBA reading everyones posts but basically yea he's a dick for saying that but if you have a tendency to go on about it to him a lot then he might get tired of hearing it. My dad died in 2006 and I rarely if ever really talk to someone about it. I have done but not so much anymore. I did see one quote about time eroding pain and its true. It will never be easy but your alive and you need to focus on living your life happily. Your dad wouldnt want you to be hurting so much because he is gone. It's ok to cry about it every once ina while...but chose, more carfeully, who you open up to about it.

You probably do just like to hear yourself talk. What idiot knows the anniversery of a persons death. You wanted him to die, asshole.

i'm sorry for your loss. i lost my dad unexpectedly, too, and some days are tougher than others. break up with your boyfriend, even if he can't understand what you're dealing with or the emotions you feel, that was insensitive and you don't deserve that. and for everyone who's wishing the death of a close family member on other people, maybe you need to cry a little sometimes, and let go of whatever is making you such a douchebag. that's something you'd NEVER wish on anyone else after it's happened to you. or, maybe you should spend some time away from the internet so you can remember what real emotions feel like?

Its perfectly normal to cry on the anniversary of his death.but still stfu because the FML wasn't supposed to be about whether or not she is grieving the way you all feel she should. So leave it alone. I don't understand why people on this site assume the OP's came here for advice or guidance or something. I don't think that's the point.

CourtneeMalakian 0

woah if that had happened to me i would have sat up and pushed him off and stormed out of there not saying anything id ignore his texts/calls for the rest of the day

CourtneeMalakian 0

and to all you people who are saying "get over it" seriously... wtf i love both of my parents and id be sad forveer (not all the time) about their death. especially on their death anniversary. my mom lost her dad about 5 years ago and she still is sad about it id be crushed if i lost my dad (im even getting a lump in my throat just thinking about it)

Ps- shameonmedude: I think you have some issues that go beyond the loss of your brother.