Miscellaneous: Today, it's the five year anniversary of my father's death. I...

By bezoar10 - 11/05/2009 19:46 - United States

Today, it's the five year anniversary of my father's death. I was cuddling with my boyfriend and crying about how much I missed him. He replied with, "Sometimes, I think you just like to hear yourself talk." FML

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By perfectmoment - 30/11/2009 00:47 - Canada

Today, I called my boyfriend to have a shoulder to cry on because my grandpa died. As soon as I told him, he started crying and telling me how much he missed his grandmother, who died six years ago. I spent the majority of the phone call listening to him wail. FML

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By docwinters - 27/05/2013 12:39 - Australia - Bathurst

Today, my partner and I were cuddling on the couch, watching TV when she smiled and murmured, "You smell like my dad." FML

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By sliceddice - 10/03/2010 16:08 - Denmark

Today, I was crying because my cat died. My boyfriend cupped my face in his hands, looked me straight into the eyes and said, "I love seeing you cry." FML

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By Anonymous - 26/07/2013 07:06 - United States - Warren

Today, my mother and I were discussing how we couldn't believe it's been nearly a year since my dad died. Not paying attention, my husband absentmindedly added, "Time flies when you're having fun." FML

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By Dan223 - 01/10/2015 13:26 - United States

Today, I saw my dad for the first time in almost five years, at his funeral. FML

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By Anonymous - 26/09/2014 20:00 - United States - Schaumburg

Today, I got back home from work and casually asked my dad, "What's up?" He casually replied, "Wishing I'd had a son instead." and stared glassy-eyed at me until I left the room. FML

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By TrulyYours - 07/05/2009 12:39 - United States

Today, I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone. After a short pause I hear him say "I love you." Smiling I say, "I love you too." Then he says, "I was talking to my dog." FML

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By motherlover - 05/08/2014 04:40 - United States - Hoffman Estates

Today, my boyfriend laid his head on my bare chest and said, "You're like my mother." FML

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By blind - 24/06/2009 12:11 - South Africa

Today, I was texting a friend of mine. She mentioned it was her dad's birthday. I typed, "Tell him 'Happy Birthday' from me!" and as I pressed send, I remembered her dad was dead. FML

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By fmmmmlll - 12/06/2012 05:29 - United States

Today, my boyfriend brought up the time he said he'd love me until the day he died. He continued by saying, "So, let's just pretend I died today." FML

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Tuesday 12 May 2009 1:44

wat an asshole!!!!!! dump him!

mfpeanuthead 0

Tuesday 12 May 2009 1:46

What a douche.

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mylifeisfuckedd 0

Tuesday 12 May 2009 7:17

Aww I'm sorry! To everyone saying "its been 5 years get over it" its not like she's crying every day. Sometimes it just gets really hard. My best friend lost her dad to cancer when we were 7, and another really close friend lost her cousin in a car accident. When you lose a loved one, some days are just harder than others, and when they need me I'm there for them. Sorry OP, you should find a guy that really cares about you.

Leptailurus 0

Tuesday 12 May 2009 7:19

#177: I have feelings for my parents, but when one of them dies I'm not going to burst into tears FIVE YEARS later and expect my boyfriend to give me asspats because I can't see mommy or daddy anymore. Maybe because mentally I'm not that dependent on one person for anything. I might be sad for a few months and would have fond memories for my entire life but for ***** sake... we're talking YEARS later here. If you haven't moved on past the crying stage by then it's just unhealthy.

hannahgilb 0

Tuesday 12 May 2009 7:34

it's about to be my father's 4 year anniversary of his death. if my boyfriend said something like that i'd kill him.

ziggy123 0

Tuesday 12 May 2009 7:34

leptailurus don't talk about how you would react to things you haven't experienced... and who made you a medical expert that you can say it's unhealthy for her to cry occasionally years after the death of a loved one, especially on the 5 year anniversary??? I'm pretty sure you can't prove that its actually unhealthy...

Bestman117 0

Tuesday 12 May 2009 7:34

Screw him

BaldOuting 0

Tuesday 12 May 2009 7:37

hopefully that moment marked the last moment he could refer to himself as your boyfriend

Leptailurus 0

Tuesday 12 May 2009 8:08

#192: Oh yes, because I haven't "experienced" it yet means I have no right to have an opinion? Right. Sorry. But just because I haven't experienced the death of one of my parents doesn't mean I haven't experienced the death of a very close family member. Don't you judge me when you have no idea about my history, either. And I never claimed to be a medical expert... but obsessing over the exact date of a death so much to draw attention to it and crying about it when it is more than a few years in the past? Sorry, doesn't sound like the picture of mental health to me. But whatever. You all can go on praising the OP and telling her how bad her boyfriend is. I really don't care anymore, just felt that I had the right to drop my two cents in-- and I did and now I'm done.