ok now, i'm not gonna say that you need to "get over it" or it's not a big deal or anything like that...i can only imagine what that must be like. you have my sympathy. that being said, i dated a guy for quite awhile (we'd even discussed getting married) whose mom had died a couple years prior, and every time we'd get in a fight and he'd be completely shitty to me, he'd pull out that card "i just miss my mom so much", get me to pity him and I'D wind up apologizing even though he was being an asshole. i'm not necessarily saying you're doing that, but people do, and it's horrible. i hope for your sake you aren't, because people will eventually stop feeling bad and begin resenting you.

People take different amounts of time to heal. But your boyfriend is an insensitive dickwad. Get him dumped or be forever the stupid chick that stayed with the insensitive dickwad. Your call.

What a jerk. You dump that piece of garbage and go find someone that will help you deal with the loss not shit on your head for it. My wife lost her mother 4.5 years ago, and there are days that she misses her so bad. Sunday was mothers day and was a hard day for my wife. Like #232 said everyone takes different amounts of time to heal.

He's probably right.. But that was horrible timing. Save that conversation for a more appropriate time. Jackass.

"See! This is why we can't have nice things!" Girls who date guys like this because "OMG HE'S HOT", or whatever... eh. YDI. I'm fairly sure such a remark or thought process didn't come out of nowhere.

Even if she does like to hear herself talk, there would have been a better time to break that to her rather than when she was in tears. This is not a reason to dump his ass unless it's one in a pattern of thoughtless behaviour. Grow up.

My dad died a few years ago too and if my Girlfriend did that to me I would probably dump her..

Ok messed up to say that while you're crying because you lost your dad (which I'm very sorry to hear that, I know it's hard), however, people don't say that unless it's true. Wrong time for him to say and that way ****** up on his part but maybe it's something you need to think about and work on it.

Haha your bf is spot on!

It doesn't matter if it's been 5 or 10 years from your dad's death. Your dad died and you still miss him. He should be sensitive that some things take a really long time to heal. Dump the insensitive asshole.