So what? If you didn't make a move then YDI. You can't put any sort of claim on a guy you aren't dating. He's a person. My best friend once asked out my crush. Instead of getting angry I congratulated her, because he said yes. I was happy for her. Later, they broke up, and I asked him out. He turned me down, and started dating another of my friends the next day. I congratulated her too, and when everyone else was pissed at her I defended her. I didn't see it as a betrayal. The first time, I hadn't made a move, so he was fair game. The second time, he turned me down. I had my shot and nothing came of it. He's got a mind of his own. If he wants do date your friend, then be happy for them. Don't let some crush ruin a friendship.

What a bitch ):

How bout you make a move...? pussssss

If she's really your best friend you wouldn't let some guy who you have a crush on ruin that... boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever. And I doubt she knew anyways..

what a hoe!

She's a fat ugly bitch.

i feel for u! one of my best friends used to do the same thing.. as soon as i knew a nice guy and introduced her to him (like "nice guy meet my friends", not like match making introductions) she started being all sexy and smiley (which she usually is not) and asked them out, even though she knews i liked them. every time i ended up still single, while she hooked up with them and after the second date she dumped them.

I had a best friend like that. Even if she professed to hate the guts of a guy, within 24 hours of finding out I was interested in same guy, she'd be sitting in his lap and fawning all over him. God, I hated her. She eventually oopsied her now-husband (she admitted to this) when he started losing interest, then continued to do so every time a kid was old enough to go to school so she wouldn't have to work. I moved away and haven't talked to her in almost 6 years, and I can't say I'm sorry in the least.

That's no reason not to be her friend. She obviously liked the first guy and likes the second guy. If she's not allowed to date someone her friend likes then you aren't either. Then no one gets to date who they like. And the guys have obviously liked her not you, so even if she didn't date them, they probably wouldn't like you anyway. Get over it and stop being a baby.

She did steal the guy away, it said in the FML. wow, she's a bitch. ditch herr