By Lexyy17 - 28/05/2016 02:43 - Canada - Lynn Lake

Today, my best friend got engaged. To get his girlfriend to say yes, he had to agree to dump me as a friend because she doesn't want him being best friends with a girl. FML
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Just putting this out there, but I never met the girl. I live in another province.. the drive takes over 30 hours one way. My friend and I only ever chatted online due to the distance and I've been happily married for the last 3 years, been with my husband for 6 so really she had nothing to worry about.

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Insecure, much? I'm sorry he wasn't a true friend, op !

epicgamer 18

He's not your best friend if he's willing to break up with you over some other girl.

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I can't really say that the fiancée is right or wrong without additional details, she could be too jealous but the female friend could also be flirty, even though she is married. However, all of the people saying that girls who make guys drop friends are abusive and such, you need to look deeper. For myself, my boyfriend had had a crush on a girl before we dated, though he was over it I thought but I wasn't certain. She had recently been broken up with by 2 guys (she was cheating) and she also texted him all the time and called him "qt" and he told me it was a joke. Like really? So I asked for him to pick, though he didn't pick me. Later we've moved passed it and we're dating now, and it still bothers me. I requested of him to stop talking to her or being friends with her and he said he would. Yet he hasn't... lol. He says they don't talk but I don't know if I believe it, she was talking to him the other day. Anyways, you just need perspective :3

If you can't trust the person, why bother being in a relationship?

RedWolfy 7

#159 for the most part of this whole thing is that the fiancée can't trust other women. she can trust her soon to be husband she just afraid that that other women might rekindle an old flame, a flame that was lit before her. So yeah alot of men & women are afraid of old flames or possible flame, its not that they cant trust the love of their life, its that what if that other person throws themselves on their loved one. My experience is that, I've been told by another girl that when my boyfriend & I started dating she was not going to give up on him. So now guess who's not invited to our wedding, just in case she decides to intervene or gets one last attempt to capture him or a part of him (ex. like his lips even).

Twisted_Angel 17

I hope he doesn't say your name at the alter!! My boyfriend is the same way. And I understand. I trust him completely, but I wouldn't be okay with him having a female friend either. I know how most women think, and he's way too hot for someone like me. I don't mind that he doesn't have female friends at all. :)

I'm kind of dealing with this now. My gf of 9 years has forced me to end all of my friendships with other women. It's frustrating having to tell someone you can no longer be friends for no reason at all. My old friend from middle school just moved back from the Dominican Republic and wanted to restart our friendship after her ex made her stop speaking to me. We have never once did anything sexually or romantic and still haven't because we don't see each other that way. So now, my gf wants me to end my 19 year friendship for no reason at all. I told her I would rather break up with her than my friend. This is day number 2 that I've been single.

This may be the set up for abuse. Try to help him op.

Good indicator they won't last and that sexual attraction is all they have in common since she doesn't want him to have female friends. Means she doesn't think they can just be friends since in her mind the only thing men and women have in common is sex.

I could see who wears the pants in that relationship!

I'm sorry but like my fiance isn't allowed to have female friends because he's a man ho.. so uhhh get over it.

<p>She sounds like a winner. &nbsp;Sorry to hear this. &nbsp;Be there for him when he leaves her.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>