Here's one possible interpretation of the situation from my own personal experiences: perhaps the reason that he feels guilty is that he just doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. The last girl I dated told me that the last time we saw each other before she dumped me made her feel really guilty, because she was planning on breaking up with me while I was being so nice to her. Being nice can make things worse, because when someone that you've been dating has the feels for you and you can't reciprocate, it makes you feel like you're the bad guy.

It sounds like he was cheating tbh..

You're welcome to come be nice to me for my b'day ...nobody else has lol

wt da hell?!?

I feel bad for you OP, but I can kinda understand. People can be too nice. My gf while being very nice goes out of her way to buy big/expensive gifts. Never, been my thing and I feel like I owe the person. Also, it tends to over ride what is important like bills and stuff. It's gotten to a point while appreciated those things shouldn't be a priority. I don't like the idea of someone doing too much even if it's a sign of love and affection it makes me feel weird because I'm not used to people doing stuff for me.

Just an excuse..

I know the feeling. It sucks.

So his solution is to dump you?

He isn't worth you then. You deserve someone who will treat you like the goddess you are

Us nice people always seem to be stepped on. D= You'll find someone nicer, OP!