By Not his SunShine anymore - 10/07/2016 23:04 - United States - Manchester

Today, my boyfriend broke up with me over something that happened 5 years ago. We've only been together for 2 years as of this July. FML
I agree, your life sucks 12 730
You deserved it 1 069

Same thing different taste

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This rather depends on the "something"! If you're responsible for the massacre of 10,000 infants then YDI really.

Similar thing happened to my friend and her dumbass ex. He called her every name under the sun, after he went creeping through her FB messages when she was asleep and found that she made out with our other friend's brother once 2 years before getting with him. It was infuriating how mentally and emotionally abusive he was to her. If your boyfriend was like this to you OP, leave and never go back!!

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OP's reluctance to say what it was she did 5 years ago does fit with it being ****. But it fits with a bunch of other things too. It's definitely a possibility though.

So you leave us all with the completely inevitable question: What in the name of **** did you do? Are you wanted for murder? Is a hitman after you? We need answers!

Depending on what it was it could be justified. I.e. Being a child molester. Or it could be stupid like you dyed your hair blond.

If you contracted an std five years ago and didn't tell him then I could understand some anger on his part.

skychild79 8

OP here he seems to think I lied to him about (wait for it cuz he sounds so stupid) A tattoo I got he's pissed because I had a tattoo done by a guy. I know I'm under a different name. couldn't remember my username or password

Ok yeah he is dumb was there a name in your tattoo or something then

What is the tattoo of? Is it in an intimate place and you told him that he was your first? Why does he think you lied? But yeah, he's sounding like the jerk in this story now.

skychild79 8

not in inappropriate place.

skychild79 8

it's because a guy did the tattoo. and it not inappropriate or in an inappropriate place I think he just ******* crazy

Even if it's in a personal place that doesn't affect someone being their first?! Unless the artist actually ****** her, it has no effect on her virginity or anything. And honestly even if it was in a private area, Id find it stupid. It's like getting angry that you have a male doctor around your private parts. They're doing their job. Honestly, you're much better off op. Sad you spent so much time with him, but now you can try to find someone that's not stupid or crazy.

Most girls are not going to get a tattoo on a private part if they are virgins or at least their virginity won't last long.

I didn't say that it would be a sensible reaction but at least it would be understandable. OP, if your boyfriend broke up with you over a tattoo you got years ago then you're better off without him.

LAURA_EL_JUICE 6

Well what was the thing that happened 5 years ago?

yeah, if it's getting into a knife fight with some hobos for their last bottle of hooch, then ydi. need more info on this one.

Did you murder anyone? That would be a valid excuse, I guess...