Okay, first off: you are jumping to conclusions yourself. How do you know if OP just assumed he bought the giftcard for another woman? Maybe she confronted her boyfriend and he fessed up and told her what happened. So shut the **** up and look at your options. Second, their relationship was obviously rocky, and they had broken up before, so of COURSE she is going to have a little doubt. Sure, they probably shouldn't be together if they've already been separated before, but who doesn't break up and go back to their ex from time to time? Don't tell me you're a poster-perfect child. Thirdly, if she was so surprised about the giftcard, either her boyfriend never buys her things and of course she would be skeptical, or he always buys her things, when there are issues. Seriously, lay your options out on the table instead of just blurting out random shit out your ass.

Damn sweetheart, you mad? Funny...something I said must have hit home with you to get all bent over a little FML comment, you ignorant fool. If you would read, I never stated that OP jumped to conclusions, I ASKED if she knew whether or not what she stated was true. Second off, I said trust needs to be ESTABLISHED, not that she needs to have it right off the bat. If your willing to work something out with someone, than you should be willing to change as well. And, no one is perfect nor did I ever say I was, so **** off k? And lastly, for someone claiming I was jumping to conclusions you sure had many assumptions in your own comment. To name just a small few, you assumed that OP never got gifts from her boyfriend. Where in the FML did it say that? Also, you suggested that maybe OPs boyfriend buys her gifts when things are going wrong. I never saw that in the FML either. You assume EVERYONE goes back to their ex, and while that may be true for some it's not true for others. Could what all you have said been true? Sure. Then again, your assumptions can be all wrong. In your own words, "Shut the **** up and look at your options."

I can sympathize with the poster though- you'd feel second best considering that he bought it for a girl he'd only known for a couple of weeks