By ahhh - 03/08/2015 06:06 - United States - Northbrook

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Today, my boyfriend of 2 months and I had sex for the first time last night. This afternoon he texted me saying, "I had an amazing night with you yesterday." Following that text he said, "I forgot to tell you I have an STD." FML
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Same thing different taste

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What a dirt bag moves on his part. Hopefully you used protection OP. Get to a Doctor as soon as possible to get checked!!!

I'm hoping you wore protection, but I'm guessing you didn't

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That's 100% illegal - I would report him

ladyg228 15

What a scumbag! Always use protection especially with a new partner

Avashantu 18

Well. You can always sue. Just saying.

SailorKelly 7

Please please please please leave him. That's not something easy to forget about and to tell you through a TEXT after the fact is really immature and honestly a little scary. Abusers are known to try and give diseases to their partners to make them feel like they can't be with anyone else, don't let him trap you into a relationship.

driaa 15

So either he's had the STD for more than 2 months and has not gotten it taken care of, or he had contracted it by having it sex with someone else while y'all have been together. Both are very wrong, sorry op

He could have something that doesn't go away with treatment.

She's also a virgin, it was her first time not everyone thinks to be careful on there first time i know i didnt, its a mistake that people make when they are young.

No. Absolutely not. Someone can't just find out they have an STD and then conveniently forget about it before having sex with somebody. You need to sue his lowlife ass if it's something incurable.

You should have waited and gotten to know him better. You are not a prude if you don't give it up right away. You were worth waiting for but now you must pay the consequences like the big girl you wanted to act like.

She did wait two months. I think that's a very decent amount of time. Usually the douchebags give up if you don't sleep with them after three dates, because they can always find a dumb and desperate girl who will. I'm guessing OP's (hopefully ex-) boyfriend waited that long because he was seeing other women on the side (which is how he got the STD).

195- You're right. Not having sex right away doesn't make someone a prude. However, it also doesn't make you superior to everyone else. Different people enjoy sex in different ways. Plus OP did wait for two months and for all that time he continually 'forgot' to tell OP about the STD until after he'd had sex with him/her. I bet he would've continued to 'forget' no matter how long OP waited.