By hunting7waves - 25/09/2015 05:31 - United States - Des Moines

Today, my boyfriend of 3 years told me he had a surprise for me at midnight. I stayed up all night, not hearing from him. Finally I get a notification. Apparently, my midnight surprise is that I'm single. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 725
You deserved it 1 893

Same thing different taste

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You're better off without him if he's such a jerk. Cheer up, get a drink with your friends and have fun! You'll find your Mr. Right :).

luckypants 17

Wow, what an asshole. Brush that off and move on; most guys would not do that to you.

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That's so lame. Forget about that loser, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

That sucks OP. You'd think after three years he could have had a little more respect for your feelings.

dragoongirl90 34

What a coward. I had this happen once, at midnight as it became my birthday. He dumped me and then blocked me so that I couldn't even call him a coward. So sorry this happened, OP. I hope your healing process doesn't take too long and hopefully you feel like you've dodged a bullet sooner rather than later. Three years is hard to get over. My thoughts are with you.

“Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.”

FalloutScrolls 25

Well, on the bright side, you'll never have to deal with that immature ass ever again. What a coward.

Ugh, how did you put up with this douchebag for three years? Time to find someone who actually respects your feelings.

Just because he's a coward and did a huge douchebag move doesn't mean he's a douchebag. There's a plethora of reasons why he could've done it, none are acceptable of course, but reasons nonetheless.

53, sure I considered it, and it continued not making sense. We all **** shit up, intentionally or otherwise, but if you continue to exhibit douchebaggery on a regular basis and never learn from your ****-ups, then you are a bona fide douchebag, stamped and sealed. It also makes you stupid. (Not singular "you," of course. I'm not calling you stupid.)

BlueHorizons 8

Sounds like your ex is an inconsiderate douche OP. You're likely better off without him. That was a fairly cruel thing that he did to you.

Why is everyone's response to immediately move on? Doubt people can move on a day after ending a 3 Year relationship

No but you can begin to try. I think what people are saying is that, if he's willing to do something as cowardly as this, OP shouldn't give him a second thought and should just cut him out of her life from now on. And I agree