For God's sake he is not a dick..he was just joking! OP is being too dramatic!

For God's sake! He was not joking! You and he are just raging dumbasses!

**** you 127!

17- While I completely agree with your mindset and comment, I seriously doubt that would shut him up at all. Arrogant people like that don't get it often enough and think You're the jack ass, and look to stick it to you later while gossiping and bitching about you behind your back. In case you haven't heard..... You can't fix stupid. ;)

Win!!! :D

Go you!

English please..

"Dumb people in this world" lol you're such a hypocrite

Early babies are not deformed! I was 5 weeks early and perfectly normal

Oh wow, I have read this comment over 5 times now and I still can't comprehend what you are trying to say with all your "?!? &&" crap, lack of capitalization and improper punctuation going on. Seriously there were more errors in that one comment then all the other comments on this FML put together.

If the baby is born one month early, it's fine. Babies can be born at 5 months and still survive with all of this new technology. The more you know

Dont make fun of him/her because of their writing style. I doubt you couldn't understand it because it was a simplified version of how we speak.

^ if it's supposed to be simplified, WRITE IT ******* NORMALLY!! You think it's "simple" but, it is in fact much harder to read(not to mention lowers the IQ of anyone who happens to read it.).

My friend is 4 months a premie and he's completely normal. He's a genius, and a fantastic singer. How can you say that premies are often deformed?

33, If you're going to complain about someone else's grammar, you should probably know the difference between then and than.

I understood what he said... You just have to read it slowly... And premies often have complications... They aren't deformed that was the wrong word choice...

Just because babies can live does NOT mean they will be fine. A pregnancy is 40 weeks and those 40 weeks are all important. Babies born even two weeks early can have life threatening complications that stay with them forever. Nothing is 100% in pregnancies. I had my son at 37 weeks, he was perfectly fine, just tiny. But a friend of mine had her son at 37 weeks and he was in the NICU for 5 weeks. His lungs weren't developed yet. You never know what is going to happen

24 weeks.

When somebody is introduced into the family, its a big deal. Not necessarily watching the whole thing happen, but to see the newborn as soon as possible. It is their flesh and blood, too. And why the hell should your mother be able to see your kid when you dont want your husbands father to see him/her?? Is the baby all yours and nobody elses? Its your husbands baby also. His family should have a right to see it just as much as yours. (and im not talking about watching the whole thing go down. Im talking about as soon as you cover up, hold the baby, and essentially do what you need to do, probably half an hour?)

@118 I think they meant, that only maybe her husband or mom would be in the delivery room for when she is pushing the kid out- not that only her husband/mom will ever see the baby. I don't think it's selfish that she wants the time to bond with her child rather than it being passed around like a hot potato while she just spent all that effort to produce it. The family has spent 9 months waiting for the baby, they can wait a little longer until mom is ready to let the baby be passed around to each family member [Which is usually a lot of people].

Yes, I meant in the delivery room. With my first it was just my husband with me for delivery, but there were about 12 people outside of my door, and they came bursting through the second they could. My son was born at midnight, I was exhausted and just wanted to cuddle my son and relax with my husband (who had gotten home from deployment 3 days earlier). Half an hour was no where near enough time, but I let them see the baby for a few minutes each then had the nurses kick them out. I promise, a newborn doesn't change THAT much in the first few days, give the new mom some room and wait patiently!! Visitors always want to hold the baby, not just look, and that's the new parents right, not the family's, for the first day!