By anonymous - 02/09/2011 22:02 - United States

Today, my child-hating friend who vowed never to have any no matter what, announced that she's pregnant. I've had three IVF cycles, spent $90k in fertility treatments, and still can't conceive. FML
I agree, your life sucks 52 723
You deserved it 4 827

Same thing different taste

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SteelCladAngel 0

So sorry OP. :( on the bright side the results of IVF are much better than they were years ago. My mom had a few miscarriages between me and my younger siblings, but went through all the fertility treatments and had 2 sets of twins. Also, my mother in law wasn't even supposed to have one baby because she had maybe 1/3 of one ovary, and she ended up having two. Just put your faith in the science and/or god, whichever you prefer and it will happen.

SteelCladAngel 0

And to all you people who think adoption is those easy peasy process that happens overnight.... The adoption process can sometimes take //years// depending on where you are adopting from. The first adoption my aunt went though took 3 years, and the current adoption shes going through has so far taken 2 years.

192--- probably because she is putting conditions on it. "I want a baby with blonde hair and blue eyes" means you're going to wait a LOT longer. (just an example, even just saying male or female can make it take longer) The average adoption takes less than 9 months, and costs about $5k-10k

SteelCladAngel 0

No, she's not. It's because she's adopting from outside the country.

which is even more ridiculous because there are American babies who need homes, the cost is lower, the wait is lower, and the benefit is local.

dab123 3

Did you know that you could have actually put that money to use by adopting? 90 grand would have gone a long way for someone who actually wanted kids (obviously you don't or you would have adopted by now). What a waste of money.

MrsLaferriere 0
dab123 3

Must take one to know one I guess.

All u need to do is start the adoption process or foster process. We had the same problem, decided to foster and bang pregnancy. Only took 11 years to figure that one out.

I feel really bad for you :( this makes me sad

Sorry to hear that but it will happen my mom was told she couldn't have kids, but she had me! So it will happen to you :-)

If I made a third of that in a year, I might have a new trumpet. **** America.

samicna 4

dang! hey dnt give up HOPE! maybe ur NeXT or Look for other ways:) best of Luck to ya