By anonymous - 02/09/2011 22:02 - United States

Today, my child-hating friend who vowed never to have any no matter what, announced that she's pregnant. I've had three IVF cycles, spent $90k in fertility treatments, and still can't conceive. FML
I agree, your life sucks 52 723
You deserved it 4 827

Same thing different taste

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Don't ya hate people like that, and how babies are having babies when us deserving adults want a kid and we try everything to have one?

Alexisthebestest 16

That's not how I meant it. I'm sorry you didn't comprehend my comment. The love is supposed to be a mutual feeling. What I was trying to say is that OP wants someone to love her & children provide that and happiness. It wasn't selfish, you just took it the wrong way. THANKS.

Time to stop wasting money and adopt...

PSome people! Adoption can be expensive and tiresome plus you never know what that person did during the pregnancy. Everyone wants their own child and if the OP wants her own than that's what she deserves. No offense to the babies of the world but I want to create my own life within me a combination of my husband and my love into one beautiful child. My husband and I have been trying for two years no outside help or tests. I figure if nature allows it than i am ready until then all I can do is wait.

261- saying "no offense" doesn't make what you said not offensive, it just makes it obvious you know it's offensive. I am adopted. My parents spent 7 anxious months waiting before I was born. My (adoptive) mother was at my birth, and held me immediately. Adoption can be just as beautiful and meaningful as having your own child. It's not right for everybody, but you make it sound like it's the worst thing in the world, which it absolutely is not!

Everyone wants their own child? Speak for yourself woman, I've known since I was fifteen that when I'm ready to be a parent I'm going to adopt and when I do I intend to adopt older children the likes of which most people wouldn't give a second glance. Just because you think splurting something out that resembles a naked molerat is magical and wonderful and superior doesn't mean everyone else in the world shares your opinion.

renlady_86 3

There comes a point though web you need to realize that maybe you are not supposed to have kids of your and you need to adopt a child from a girl. Like Juno.

Hey op.... I'm going through same shit ... hubby and I been trying 8 yrs.... its hurts I know. Try to keep the faith. And there is NO way ydi!

BellaMarta 19

Adoption! Help an unwanted child. :)