if she keeps it up, she'll have 3 kids by the time she's 18

pathetic, and its not your fault even.. but if i were you. id ground that lil bitch til shes 18. Isn't it sad what direction our society is headed>?

HA! ****!

Times have changed a lot, lucky you that's shes waited this long... So please don't take the fools above me advice and 'beat her' or 'lock her in her room'. Talk to your daughter, express that you don't condone what she is doing. BUT ALSO ASSURE HER that you will provide her with bc & condoms...because I mean... the only thing worse then a 13 year old having sex is a 13 year old having a baby.

wow im 17 and she is what everyone in high school calls a ***** you really need to get a hold on her

Ayo everyone saying 'you've had 3 FMLs already today!' -- NONAME is NOT the same person!

no offense but your daughter seems kinda slutty if she was only 13

so your daughter just told you she is going to have sex before 22. Whoppee-de- do its not like she is going to be the first person in the world who is going to beat ya too

well, my sister had sex at 12, and I at 14, it's not uncommon at all, most don't talk to their parents at all.

I'm going to give you the best advice you can get, and I'll make it short, you had best read this: 1. Your daughter is, unfortunately, a ****. I would say "will become one", but I have to say that there is a super-high chance that she already IS one. (I don't say this to offend you... just to give you a heads-up.) 2. Obviously, we both agree that your job as a parent is to make up for your earlier failures, and to correct her and make her non-slutty. 3. In order to turn her non-slutty, you have to do a number of things: A- educate her! Teach her about pregnancy, STD's especially, the crappy life girls have who have sex that early, and how people will call her a "sl*t". DO NOT HOLD BACK! If she's spreading her legs at 13, she's heard these words before! She NEEDS TO KNOW that people will disrespect her, use her, abuse her, dislike her, and be disgusted by her. She needs to know that having sex with random people will result in painful bowel movements and urination, possible pregnancy, and likely STDs that will result in early death. B- Teach her religion! I DONT CARE IF YOU'RE NOT RELIGIOUS.... BECOME ONE! For your sake, I'd pick Christianity. I say this because A) im a believer, and B) jewish girls i know are slutty, and muslims... well, that's not your type of religion im guessing. ....If you teach her religion, she actually has a MORAL REASON to refrain from sex! Oftentimes, moral and eternal consequences and restrictions bear significantly more weight than simply earthly factual reasons. If she doesn't believe in God or Jesus and doesn't want to believe (and at this rate, as she's now the hoe of the school, I wouldn't be surprised at all)....... YOU HAVE TO GIVE HER EVIDENCE AND MAKE HER BELIEVE! Trust me- there IS EVIDENCE! go to www.darwinismrefuted.com C- Punishment, of course. The key with punishment is to show her that first, you are NOT doing it out of anger, but that she is simply doing something horribly wrong, and that cannot be permitted, and you will do everything in ur power to stop her! also, do it calmly... LASTLY, do not go overboard OR relent. stick to your guns, and do what you think you need to do. if you have a wife, itd be better for her to paddle her, as a dad doing it might just.... eh idk. Make sure you know where she is, and don't let her go to parties w/o knowing the parents, take away her computer most of the time, moniter her cell, etc. D- Teach her that sex is supposed to be saved till marriage. E- Make her interested in other stuff! GET HER INTO SPORTS, CHURCH, AND MOST OF ALL, SCHOOL AND LEARNING!!! And DO NOT let her sign up for stuff that potheads like to do. As in, NO NATURE CLUBS, NO crew, no 70s club, no Tech, etc. (all of this is high school clubs, but you get the idea!) Make her hang out with the POPULAR BUT MORALLY SOUND CROWD.... NOT with the unpopular, gutter-trash, LOWLIFE crowd! good gravy! F- Buy her better clothes, and teach her to take care of herself, and to stick up for herself, and to VALUE herself. Boost her self esteem!!!! Treat her right, spend time with her, and let her know that A) she means everything to you and is a very valuable, fun, unique person... B) you love her... C) she is too good to associate with bad or low-life people, and to do bad things like sex. G- DONT LET HER FEEL TOOOO GUILTY! After you have THOROUGLY explained EVERY REASON why sex before marriage (especially at 13) is horribly wrong.... TELL HER THAT IT WAS A MISTAKE ON HER PART, AND THAT YOU FORGIVE HER, AND THAT SHE SHOULDN'T BLAME HERSELF, SHE SHOULD JUST NOTTT DOOO ITTT AGAIINNNN! Smile and give her a hug, and tell her that she's a smart and independent and moral girl, and you know she's too smart to make that stupid mistake again. =) H- Find out what kid it was, and tell him to stay away from her. Tell the kid that you and your daughter have good relations, AND that you know everything (u can even say im in the CIA).... and tell him that sex at that age is 100% ILLEGAL (which it is) and that if he TOUCHES your daughter sexually again, YOU WILL HAVE HIM ARRESTED FOR COMMITTING A CRIME! (this is perfectly legal to say!)