Yeah, and some women are secure enough not to mind. Guys are going to **********. As long as it doesn't interfere with their life, it doesn't have to be a big deal.

Some girls do have legitimate self-esteem issues over there men watching ****; but they really shouldn't. I mean think about it realistically. If a guy is with a girl he KNOWS that she isn't going to be a **** star, and nor is he for that matter. Everyone is usually aware of this. **** is nothing more than elaborate fantasies, that's all really. It's stuff that you KNOW can't be accomplished in real life but it's fun to watch and fantasize too anyway. And if the girlfriend doesn't want to have sex, would it then be fair for the man to force her just cos he's horny? Of course not. No guy (well OK I'll change that to 'most') guys aren't going to expect their girl to be a **** girl. **** is just a fun activity to watch. It hardly counts to cheating. I vouch for couples ****-watching it together is so so much more fun.

Because his girlfriend probably doesn't want sex all of the time. There are probably times when she's not in the mood, too tired, away, etc. Most people still ********** in a relationship, and **** is just a part of that for some people. Although I don't like the way that OP seems to be purposely hiding it from his girlfriend

Because it's just ****? It's a fantasy. Everyone watches ****. There's no reason to be uptight about it.