By skizpow7 - 28/07/2010 16:53 - United States

Today, my live-in girlfriend and I broke up. She told me she can't leave because she has nowhere to go. I'm stuck with her until she finds a job and an apartment. FML
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It is my apartment, and we broke up mutually. she moved here from 50 miles away to live here and we'd been together two years. we just recently figured out that our relationship was great... right up until she moved in. we simply can't live together. and I'm not gonna kick her out, totally rude. she gave up her life in her town to come live here, I don't expect her to be able to up and leave. she's only been here a month and doesn't know anyone close and her parents live 4 states away. it'll just be super awkward. FML

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smokergirl420 0

It sucks that you guys weren't able to live together, and I really respect you for not kicking her out. I know how it is to not have anyone else to rely on other than my bf. Things will be awkward but since it sounds like the two of you didn't have a terrible nasty breakup and it was a mutual agreement then I don't think it will be too too awkward. Good luck to both of you.

just kick her out. it's her problem, not yours

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Norther 1

Send her to her parents or something like that!

I'm going to try a little constructive here, since it happened to me, and it sucked. First, cohabitaiton is likely to be hell, especially if she's still into you. Second : if your ex is like mine, she will not move out on her own. Mine spent several months not being able to find a place to live, until I told her basically that unless she found before I would personnaly move all her shit to a crappy one-bedroom upstairs from my parents' place. Since she never liked my parents (and it was 350 km from my place) she magically found something three days before the deadline. Note that moving out was a good thing for her in the end, since it was the kick in the pants needed to move her out of her depression. So my advice would be to be firm, being nice in your position only prolongs the breakup hell.

I'm pretty sure this is the standard procedure for people who live together. You moved in together knowing if you broke up you'ld still have to live together until either one found a differnt place. I'm pretty sure there are laws as well to do with that.

She may have nowhere to go, but there shouldn't be anything stopping you from finding a new place

Lol I dont understand why in gods name would she break up with you, if shes a live in with you and has nowhere to go. Im calling BS or the chick is just really ****** up so you should be glad you wont have a future with her

If you bothered reading the comments you'd know that it was a mutual breakup, and why etc.

kick her ass out! don't be a push-over! at least make her your maid or something :) lol

crodrig8 0

no if it's your place kick her ass out. merciless as it may sound.