By sarskii - 16/08/2010 23:01 - United States

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Today, my mother found out that I'm sexually active. She wants me to tell my father. I'm seventeen, and my father still has trouble grasping the fact that I carry a purse, because it means I'm "growing up." This should be fun. FML
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Rambo881xx 0

Show him a tampon, he will have a heart attack.

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vanillatwilight6 0

well in a way its a good think cuz ur moms not telling him i wuldnt kno if i had 2 tell y dad tht aince he left

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PazBANG 0

lolololol at the people saying 17 is too young. they must be old. I say avoid it to you HAVE to tell him. and then put a good distance between you and him when you tell him.

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vanilla2u 5

that's the most immature thing i've ever heard. OP i rally cant give in my opinion its your life and you have already heard enough. Tell me what has happened so far im here to listen and if you want to reply :)

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ashby00 0

106 I understand ad agree it all depend on the person....just e careful and don't get caught :p

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nismo_r2 5

what 17 young ? I ******* 14 year olds I'm 23

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DevilDoll 0

haha wow. that's nice, when I was 13 i was ******* a 21 year old(:

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SaraN29 6

YDI for being a ****

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sarskii 0

Quick question, and I'm just curious. You're entitled to your own opinion, but how does sleeping with only one man in my entire life, someone who I've been dating for two years and have known for more, make me a ****? Just wondering. :)

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UpYoursInAdvance 0

YDI for having Pre marital Sex and try to be like everyone else

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luthi 0

I can think of many things you deserve for your judgmental comments which goes against the religion you preach from.

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sarskii 0

Not trying to be like everyone else dear, I made the choice I made based on my own feelings, thoughts etc.

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lindseybeth 1

i'm 15 and I'm not a virgin, get over it (:

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brushababyy 0

lost my virginity at 14. I'm still with the guy I lost it to and haven't slept with anyone else :). neither has he. I have absolutely no regrets and I told my mother. I'm not close with my father and thus, haven't told him. had a pregnancy scare only once, and it was just cuz I don't keep track of my period. I have never had sex without a condem, however the pill has never agreed with my body. op is not too young, and I was mature enough at 14. my body was done growing then too. j haven't grown an inch since I was 13. I'm 4'11".

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luthi 0

It's extremely disgusting the amount of judgmental comments there are. When a person should become sexually active is their own personal decision, not based on the morals of anyone else. @OP: your level of sexual activity is a private matter that is absolutely none of your parents' business. The only discussion you need to have with them is about risks and risk prevention. Part of being an adult is dealing with the consequences of your actions. However, that doesn't mean you have to give in to your parents' retarded demands that violate your privacy. If they can't give you a reasonable explanation on why you should do the specific task, then it's unreasonable. Pretty simple. Stand your ground. Explain it is none of their business. Ask if they can give you any reason why it would be (there are none). Listen to what they have to say. Look at the situation from their perspective and be understanding about the way they feel. Be calm and don't act like a child and throw a hissyfit. The only way your parents will treat you like an adult, is if you act like one. Though trust me they never fully will. You'll always be their little girl, just with more privileges.

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sarskii 0

Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. Your reasoning does make a lot of sense, thank you. :)

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