By TheDenmarkian - 04/08/2015 21:40 - United States - Wickliffe

Today, the girl I've loved for years kissed me. Then she started crying and wiping her mouth, and had a panic attack. I had to help her through it, tell her that it was no big deal, and that it would never happen again. FML
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TheDenmarkian tells us more.

Unfortunately, she said she has no idea why she kissed me. She said she is confused and doesn't know, and I told her to think about it. She said she just didn't know, but it was probably to test the waters. She did enjoy the kiss, if that makes up for anything.

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Declare your love for her and tell her the day she kissed you was the best day of your life, don't hide it. Maybe she feels the same and didn't want to lose you as a friend, hence why she panicked.

OP is such good kisser he leaves bitches in tears...

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At least you were a good guy and helped her through it

You're a sweet person for being there for her OP. Just be the best person you can be to her. As someone who has panic attacks, I personally get triggered sometimes by even the smallest things, so don't feel bad OP. She's the one who kissed you, so she probably does like you OP. Just be patient.

then why did she wipe her mouth like he was something disgusting? my wife has panic attacks abd shes never done that to me

She may have a bad past with relationships or maybe she even just started feeling triggered for some reason. Panic attacks are hard to control and can be random, and it doesn't particularly mean she thought he was disgusting.

He never said she wiped her mouth in disgust. Just that she wiped her mouth. Maybe he left moisture on it. I know when my husband kisses me and my lips are left with any amount of wetness, I wipe my mouth.

karcummings 19

just tell her how you feel. if shes nice enough she will apologize for being so rude

Rude? She had a panic attack! That is not something she planned, it just happened. She hasn't done anything to apologize for. How could a panic attack ever be considered rude?

#18 The wiping her mouth bit was a bit rude, definitely not the panic attack

If my husband leaves any moisture on my mouth after s kiss, I wipe my mouth, and vice versa. It's not necessarily a rude gesture.

redmeer 1

#18 yes even though she had a panic attack the fact that she "started to cry and wiped her mouth" is a devastating act towards op. I have panic attacks so I know how they are that was extreme and maybe rude isn't the word to use but she should still apologize because I know even though he helped her through it she emotional eviscerated op.

She had a panic attack, how is that rude? It's not like she did it on purpose..

mds9986 24

We've all been there OP. Time heals all wounds.

If she kissed you and she isn't twelve then that means it wasn't a dare and she wanted to do it. People with anxiety disorders can tell you: something doesn't always have to "trigger" a panic attack. Yes, it could have been nerves, but it's also quite possible the attack had nothing to do with you. Many can't explain WHY they get hit with these, it just happens at times, seemingly at random. Don't beat yourself up about it.

SauceySarah 30

What's the context that led up to the kiss? Why did she kiss you? To just test the waters between you two?

Unfortunately, she said she has no idea why she kissed me. She said she is confused and doesn't know, and I told her to think about it. She said she just didn't know, but it was probably to test the waters. She did enjoy the kiss, if that makes up for anything.

1dvs_bstd 41
Ruskiy_Cherep 18

Okay Im no expert or anything but if a girl told me she enjoyed the kiss we shared Id probably keep goin for it. Best of luck to you mate!!!

Man i have a feeling she actually loves you she just made up an excuse lol ask her on a date and make it the best night of her life :)

Yeah, sounds like she had a panic attack about what would happen if you didn't like her. Sit here down and have a proper, no pressure talk about it.

My boyfriend once had a panic attack after kissing me. They happen at random. He couldn't control it. It doesn't mean she hated kissing you.

Awe, don't fret op. If she didn't like you she wouldn't have kissed you. I have a few friends who get panic attacks and they usually happen if they get a trigger of some sort or they're really freaked out. She was probably so nervous to kiss you that it caused that to happen. And if that's the case, then she likes you a lot more than you think ! (: but either way, that was sweet of you to help her through that. You're a good guy op! x Wishing you the best. I hope you get your girl!