He has a fetish watching fat people eat! They refer to such people as: feeders.

I'm pretty disgusted by these comments. The OP's boyfriend didn't choose to have that fetish; that's like condemning someone for being homosexual. Besides, who cares if you just lost weight. The important point is that you are happy with your body. You apparently are not happy with yourself if this bothers you. YDI for being closed minded and insecure.

Be careful with this one, he's going to try to make you gain weight ... I watched that happen to my friend. If you don't want to gain it, probably should move on

Be yourself and forget the guy :) you beautiful exactly the way you are!

I honestly don't see the problem, he basically loves you the way you are. Congrats on loosing all that weight.

Losing*

Guys who have a fetish for watching larger women eat are called feeders. They get turned on by this and usually "feed" their women who get larger and larger. Well done on losing 40lb, that's brilliant, but I have a feeling that staying with this guy could see you undo all that hard work. Best of luck x

Dude, nice icon. :)

It seems like everyone is missing the point. She reached her IDEAL weight. She started seeing this guy. He thinks she is chubby. Not Cool. She thought she had finally achieved and healthy and attractive weight. He thinks she is chubby. That is a huge blow.That is aside from the fact that, yes, you guys are right if he is a feeder he will want her to eat and gain weight.

Or she is chubby... She could have been really fat before so the 40 pounds didn't make much of a difference.