By nolove - 14/11/2012 10:36 - Australia

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Today, the love of my life, and long term partner, sat me down and told me that he feels so comfortable in our relationship that he no longer feels the need to have sex with me, and he doesn't think that that will ever change. FML
I agree, your life sucks 37 582
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Same thing different taste

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Turn up the sexy and heel snap out of it.

First of all from my understanding this is a gay couple. Which kinda changes it a little. First up there are not very many guys out there who do not want to have sex. And if he was one that never wanted sex and you two have been together for a while then he has obviously lied for a very long time. I don't find this to be the case. Being gay also I can understand sort of where he is coming from. In my own personal life I practice a healthy open relationship with several people. And I do have my main partner and we do not have sex. We are there for each other emotionally and we are the bestest of friends. He is my soul mate. So I think that you need to sit down and talk with your partner about why he doesn't want sex with you. And figure out an alternative. Maybe this was just his way of asking for an open relationship.

SamCrow 1

You must have let yourself go...jumped from the top of the ugly tree, hit every branch and ate cheeseburgers after. Bet I'm right.....

How to become a loser, an impotent, a scumbag and a fag in just one second? Try saying no to a woman!

he is trying to come out of the closet on you

bripoo 8

My boyfriend is currently in that same state of comfort in my relationship

Either he doesn't wanna be with you anymore or he's gay.

Axel5238 29

That sucks physical intimacy is important. As David Carridine said " Sex without love is empty, Love without sex is ******* empty.

Hopefully it's only a matter of "need" and not "want".

just trying to get you to break up with him probably, I doubt he just turned asexual overnight like that