Man, that sucks. She'll come around. In 20 years, she'll never want sex anyway, so get as much as you can once she is ok with it!

get the marriage annuled. even if you havent had sex, this is just pathetic she won't put out on her ****** wedding night.

People who don't wait until marriage aren't necessarily *****...and #212, so if you DON'T get scared, you're a ****? ...What? I personally waited until I found someone who I thought was something special, someone I wouldn't regret losing my virginity to, because I valued it and I wanted my first time to be with someone I loved (and I still do love him). But I wasn't scared, and I certainly wasn't going to wait until marriage. Basically, in the same way that people shouldn't be berating these two for waiting or telling them to divorce, people shouldn't be calling people who have sex before marriage *****.

I can sort of understand this situation =/. NONE of us know what happened in her life and NONE of us know what she is like. All he may have to do is be patient, don't base your marriage on how you will do it tonight. It would be wonderful to have it be a part of your marriage, but not based on it. She may come around, just keep talking with her, like why she was so scared/ upset on the honeymoon. She may not be a virgin, she may have been violated, she may be just scared, who knows? And obviously, having sex before the marriage wouldn't have made this any better.

Hahahahahahaha... My brother got married last night... Sure hope this isn't you... hahahahahahaha FYL

She doesn't deserve time. You can't have time once you're married. Annul/divorce now. FYL, but YDI for waiting and not getting some form of commitment from her.

After being viciously rejected like that, I don't know how I'd ever speak to her again. I think I'd get an annulment and break all ties with her. "Honey I'm nervous," is one thing, how does someone react like that one day and develop a healthy sexual relationship ever?

DAMN YOU HAVE JUST BEEN SCREWED OVER

hahaha typical virgin mistake: You took off your clothes and expected for her to just jump in bed with you? Come on now. Every woman wants foreplay - at least for the first time. If you had started off with kissing, and got to sex spontaneously, she would be turned on and not freaked out.

Just remember.. Sex does not equal love.. just be patient with her.... remember.. it hurts more for girls then it does guys..