I don't see anything wrong with waiting for marriage as long as you at least discuss sex before marriage and get a fair understanding of eachother's needs. I know some people who think you shouldn't discuss it before and I think that's when it becomes a problem. Ignore the idiots saying 'omg divorce her!" because if you love her, you can be patient and also, people can improve on their sex abilities if they want to. It's not permanently like this. Talk with her and assure her you will be gentle.

Take your time, let her feel more comfortable.

why do people have to say he is a liar. he could be posting this via his phone dumasses.

hahaa #30 "it must be really hard" "there must be something up" rofl

You waited with sex untill marriage, your own fault. Why ? For the following reasons; 1: Naturally, she is afraid because she has never had sex before. 2: All the pressure is put on one night and both of you are relatively clueless on how to have sex. 3: Because you know she is afraid, you also know the reason she didnt want to have sex is not just because she wanted to stay pure, that was just an excuse not to have sex. So your wife is basically holding some sort of secret to you, since you two have never even talked about sex and about your fears/desires concerning it. (this doesnt mean she is lying to you) There's a reason why people have sex before they marry, its because when you have sex you basically have to surrender yourself to your partners mercy, you have to reveal yourself in your most intimate way possible, and whether or not you can or cant do that reveals alot about your relationship. Your wife is probably afraid she will dissapoint you and hence she doesnt want to do it. If you would have done it before you could have talked about it, and you could have worked on your relationship, and you could have let her know that you wont be dissapointed no matter what (or atleast I hope so for your sake) She could be afraid of other things concerning sex too, but how would you know if you havent had it or atleast talked about it. Sex complicates alot, I am not going to lie about that. Sex wont always be good, and it will dissapoint sometimes. Yet those things dont mean sex is bad. You could say thesame about love.

omg omg omg....... hahahaha........ im sorry but i cant stop lauhing

Wow, FYL And #13, in case you haven't figured it out yet, they have to start with "today". This could have happened two weeks ago.

Has anyone else noticed that the first comment always seems to get moderated?

yeah, i would say talk to her. usually the best way to do things.