By anonymous - 02/11/2015 03:13 - United States - San Francisco

Spicy
Today, was the first time giving head to my boyfriend. He couldn't finish, so I tried a handjob. In the end he kind of pushed my hand away so he could finish himself off. FML
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Same thing different taste

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The key is communication and practice. If he doesn't tell you what he enjoys you'll never be able to give it to him.

I hope you took notes on what he was doing. He shouldn't be rude about it but talking about, and showing each other what works for you isn't a bad idea.

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Next time, (if he's into it) start licking his balls while he finishes up. Very sensitive pleasure spot and shows you do want to please him and are willing to put in the effort. Just make sure he returns the favor ;)

IcyMask 6

My gf can not finish me off with a bj or a hj, some guys can't finish like that. And she's really good at it.

don't worry about it op, I use to be the same way with my gf where I couldn't finish from a handjib or ******* just get your boyfriend to tell you what works and what doesn't

I gave head the first time last night ... It was a huge fail

middlenamefrank 8

It happens to the best of us. It takes time to get used to a new person's touch, and to learn what works well for the new person. Give it some time and patience, don't get critical or self-critical, and you'll be fine.

Don't take it personally. I don't really enjoy handies either.

sherbear86 21

cheer up OP may not be you, I've had my share of experience giving head and always finished the guy off fairly quick. that is until my most recent ex, could never finish him off head or hj. but next time try to see if he will tell you what he likes as you are doing it. also no one likes a dry handy

ourtneyc 14

******** and hand job are the two jobs which does not specify the correct job description..

Don't worry too much about it, OP. I had the same problem (kind of) when me and my boyfriend started dating. He was nervous, so it always took him HOURS to finish (I'm not exaggerating), so I needed his help getting him there. Your jaw and hands can only take so much! xD