Unreasonable

By Crazy Crazy Crazy - 13/09/2013 00:01 - Canada - Burlington

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Today, my fiancée called off our wedding, because she found out I had sex with another woman. Three years before we even met. FML
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katymack 11

At least you found out she was crazy before you got married!

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ninjuh_wingman 29

Better not tell her your mom kissed you when you we young. She might go insane.

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More_Leg 14

Be thankful, she just saved you time AND marriage counseling...

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SweetasCandy0609 28

I think she used it as an excuse I think she either had cold feet or she is just plan insane either way your probably better off with out all her madness.

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victoriaescobar 10

She probably assumed you were a virgin and waiting for marriage to have sex.. That's very important to some people. I completely understand why she cancelled it.

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Shade1982 20

Really? Breaking off a marriage instead of talking to your significant other about the situation seems normal to you? Sounds like a selfish move to me. When in a relationship, what BOTH people think is important, not just what ONE person thinks... If you aren't prepared to accept that another may think differently than you, don't be in a relationship.

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Shade1982 20

And if it was THAT important to this person, she should have asked about it, or at least let it known, much earlier in the relationship, instead of waiting until they were getting ready to marry...

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rldostie 19

Maybe she did ask and he lied. Seems plausible.

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tourdeforce 6

Well, in China, lots of people don't like their dates are not virgin.

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hordriss 14

But he's not in China so that's entirely irrelevant.

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carina_47 16

You just might've dodged a bullet there OP. If she has this kind of trust issues and doesn't really grasp that we're out of the ******* Dark Ages, then she's definitely nothing all too good for you. And it's fine if both partners want to wait until marriage before having sex (albeit I don't know how that's good. I mean, you test drive a car before you buy it, duh), but it's a legitimate wish. However BOTH partners must have this wish, or it'll lead to (sexual) frustration. No need to feel guilty and FYL! You'll find someone who thinks better of you. My sympathies!

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lwonderful 11

What the hell are you talking about, #39

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Jhtsosa 5

Because treating sex like its only a physical act is a good thing. It's people like you that made our divorce rate shoot up, ignoramus

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hordriss 14

Sounds like she was just looking for an excuse. It sucks, but it's best this kind of thing happens this side of the wedding.

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fleur_de_fevrier_fml 22

I just don't understand how she didn't know about it. Did she think you were a virgin when you met her? How come you never talked about your past relationships? There is no need to dwell on them but that seems like a normal conversation to have at least once. If she asked you if you had women before and you said no, then you kinda deserve it, especially if you knew she was into the "one partner for life" concept. Now calling off the wedding seems a bit extreme. Go talk to her.

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emala1096 17

Did she think you had never done it before??

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kwesh34 0

She's not meant for you OP! You just saved yourself a heartache!

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Jhtsosa 5

To some people, that is a legitimately big deal. You should have discussed that prior to getting engaged. Period. That fact that you word it to make it seems that she is at fault gives me a total lack of sympathy for you. Perhaps instead of seeking attention online, you should be trying to talk to her instead.

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