YDI for not being chaste?

if she assumed you should have communicated better. If you lied or misled her YDI and worse. Lying about you sexual history to a partner can endanger her health and if you loved her you should have been more honest.

You're safe to marry a sane person now.

Did u tell her you were a virgin? I feel we are missing some of the story.

Maybe she's really religious?

Lets hope what ever happens is for our good

Now where's the rest of the story? Why is it that this is something she had to 'find out' instead of just something that she would have known? Because two ways you could read the phrasing, another woman, as in a specific other woman who there's a problem with because of who she is, not that she is another woman, or another woman as in she was led to believe you had never been with any women prior to her and she caught you out in the lie. Or the way she found out about the other woman involves child support.

Well if she was religious and against premarital sex then you should have seen this coming. Can't hide things forever bud. That is the only plausible reason she would break up with you over this, that or she is crazy.

Was she under the impression you were a virgin, or had not been with anybody in that timeframe? It may not seem like a big deal to you but if I found out my fiancé had lied I'd take pause to reevaluate what else they lied about.

I would make sense if say the other girl you slept with 3 years ago was related to her or a very close friend of hers and you never mentioned it . There's always another side to the coin. Now if she was someone that she didn't know, then yes, FYL!