Work husband

By Anonymous - 26/08/2013 15:16 - United States - Brooklyn

Today, a coworker told me she may be in love with me. I admitted similar feelings and we agreed, since we're both happily married, not to spend time together anymore. Two hours later we were both promoted to run the same project, where we'll be "working hand in glove for the next couple of years." FML
I agree, your life sucks 57 408
You deserved it 14 979

Same thing different taste

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Just remember hand in glove doesn't equal ring on finger.

State that there is a conflict of interest to your boss. You really don't want to put yourself in that position, OP, especially once you decide to be loyal to your spouse.

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First of all what were you both doing in the first place that caused these super intense and super important feelings to develop? How did this happen? Love is gradual so these feelings must've developed over some period of time and you allowed it. IMO you deserve it. if my husband could fall in love with another women then he should be with HER! Its not fair to keep this from your spouse....you've already cheated emotionally which is worse then physically.

bandeek 30

Are you serious? If my SO fell in love with someone else, I'd fight for him and show him why he loves me in the first place. If you don't want to fight for your husband you must not love him very much and i feel sorry for him.

Why be with him if he can fall in love with someone else while hes still married to you...ur the joke... I love my husband so much that I WOULD NEVER be unfaithful in any way shape or form. Ur an idiot.

You need to make sure its not just lust. If you leave your SO and it is just lust you will not be able to get her back.

Beepbeep7 14

I totally agree with you 135. Op and the other woman are being very unfair.their spouses deserve better.

jsc9306 14

Looks like divorce is in the future- within the next two years.

I'm gonna go against everyone commending you here, because if both of you have "fallen in love", then you have already cheated. Even if not in the physical sense. *****.

bandeek 30

How is that cheating? You can't control who you love. It's only cheating if he decides to do something about it.

If he is developing serious feelings for this other person then he needs to rethink his marriage

I find a flaw in this. If you're happily married, why are you feeling for another person?

Crybaby. Make your decision and just get it over with.

PrimeStarscream 30

I smell an affair and broken marriages coming on...

What does she mean with "maybe". If she resale wouldn't want to take this any further she would have kept it to her self. And you too.

Besides the problems this causes with the marriages, does the company have a "no fraternization" policy? Those policies were created to avoid situations like this, which all too often end messily.