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plexico, i think i am falling in love with your comments. OP: well then ground him until you look like that agian and see how he feels. (my parents would do this) or, grow a spine an get the f*ck over it and excercise.

plexico. my mom is a mother of 4 and makes single girls cry. she's 46 and gets hit on by 21 year olds in clubs. I am force fed this information every time. I know what you mean....

Wow! What's her number? Maybe when someone says, "Who's your daddy?" you can say "plexico!" ;)

22 ftw!

In case you're a complete moron, which seems to be the case, having children DRASTICALLY changes some women's bodies. Most women are recommended to gain 30 pounds or so during pregnancy. About half of that will come out at birth. I agree that they should take on the responsibility and lose the weight after delivering the kid, but the kid really is to blame, and that isn't arguable.

It is fully arguable. First of all, if a woman is that narcissistic and concerned about her appearance and weight due to the inevitable weight gain that pregnancy causes, then don't have kids. Second, if you do gain weight, don't sit there and cry about it and call people morons. Put down the french fries, pizza and chicken fingers and go to the gym. But I get it, it's much easier to blame your kid.

First let me point out that I personally don't have kids and am underweight. You're arguing whether or not having kids is a reasonable cause for weight gain. That's ridiculous. You may as well say it's not going to cost any money and people should get off their lazy asses and get better jobs. You know, having children is required to continue the race. Sure, it's everyone's decision, but it's kind of a necessary thing for someone to do it. And I fully understand that they shouldn't just sit on their ass weighing 300 pounds and excuse it by having had kids, but that doesn't mean everyone who gains weight after having children is just bitching and moaning. It really does change a woman's body. OP may have just had another kid, say, 2 years ago and is in the process of working off the weight. Not everyone is just a lazy tub of lard.

yeahh i agree with both you guys. having a baby does change your body but not DRASTICALLY as you say. drastically to me sounds like an extra 50-100 lbs and if that is the case, then you only have yourself to blame, not the child. plus, MANY women work on their bodies after pregnancy and they look great. if you have a baby and let your body stay the way it is for years to come, then you have YOURSELF to blame. plus i believe the appropriate way of addressing the situation is by telling the kid that pregnancy can distort your body shape, NOT by telling him its his fault. that is just mean. even though what the son said was mean, 11 year olds are just rude to begin with (they are the age group i work with). and its kind of sad that women have to feel conscious of their body image after pregnancy. they should be proud of having a baby, not worrying about how they look afterward or what their husbands will think. its not about being a MILF, its about staying healthy.

It effects every woman differently. It changes metabolism oftentimes, and it's not unusual for women to gain a large amount of weight during and shortly after pregnancy without it being unhealthy. I agree they should work it off, but not as soon as they have the kid. They need to tend to themselves and the baby right then.

Did the child say she was fat? No. So why assume she should exercise? My son looks at photos of when I was younger and he always comments that I'm "more smiley" near my eyes now........ I love him for not calling them crows feet or wrinkles *lol*