Which dad is really okay with his daughter having sex?, safe or unsafe wouldn't matter.

Sane, reasonable ones? Obviously no dad LIKES the thought of his daughter having sex but he'd have to be pretty crazy to not be okay with it if she's an appropriate age.

25, it's about time dads got their heads out of the 1950s. Making your children ashamed and afraid to talk to you about safe sex is how you get teenage pregnancies. Any parent who simply says "not in my house" or "not my kid" is causing a significant amount of harm. Those parents need to grow the **** up.

As in either a empty condom box or empty condom wrapper. The foil packet that the condom itself is in is makes the most sense right now. One probably fell out of the garbage and the father found it.

OP did not say they kept a used condom. Only that the dad found the empty wrapper.

I had a similar thing, I put it in the communal bathroom bin and my sister figured out it was me because she was on the pill and so was my brother's girlfriend at the time. I had just turned 15 so my mum took me to the clinic to go on the pill within the same week. Honestly, from hearing how some parents react, I hope more parents act like my mum did.

i hope you still wore condoms until you and your boyfriend got tested first, because the pill doesn't protect from STDs..

I can assume the OP is underage or has very religious parents.

Even if she is 15, as long as he is similar in age I don't see an issue. Sex and sexual appeal is a huge component of self esteem for many people, and safe sex is a healthy thing. Dads just need to not live in the 1950s.

Will always be daddy's little girl.

Still weird though, if he actually got angry and they're over a certain age. I get that he probably doesn't love the thought of his daughter having sex (just as I don't particularly like the thought of my dad having sex) but if he actually got angry that's a bit ridiculous.

My area is super conservative. Mainly amongst the older generations, sex is a terribly taboo subject, especially if the couple isn't married. The younger generations really don't care so much, but keep it all on the down low from the parents and grandparents. That may be the case with OP.

It was in his house, that's why he is allowed to be mad. No matter the age, sex in the parents house, especially in the girlfriends parents house, is highly frowned upon.

I guess that's more understandable 29. I still find that weirdly conservative though. I'd get him being angry if it was in a bed that other people sleep in but if it was in the OP's girlfriend's bed I still really don't see the issue. That's just me though, his house his rules I guess.

No, that does not make 29s point reasonable. She's most likely underage, meaning she lives with dad. DAD chose to have a kid, kid did not choose to live with dad. She doesn't really have a choice about where to safely have sex like he does. You can't use that choice as leverage. Dad needs to understand that teens will have sex regardless of what he wants. If he makes his kids ashamed to talk about it or do it, that's horribly toxic and is how you get teen pregnancies. Dad needs to be rational about the topic. he's an adult and has no excuse for letting his retarded unreasonable emotions dictate his actions towards his kid.

Well yeah, that's why I said I still find it weirdly conservative. And yeah there's no point just getting angry- they should be taught about safe sex. But it shouldn't just be left alone as if two, say, 13 year olds having sex is perfectly okay.