Finance? I think you mean fiancè.

Everyone gets cold feet before their wedding. But yeah Op, you should talk to someone about it.

Good eye, 22. I didn't even notice 'til you pointed that out.

Fiancé lol 22

I'm taking #1's side on this. Divorce is freaking expensive, so the OP ought to talk to her "finance" about whether to go forward with this doomed venture, or cut her losses while she can. People need to listen to their subconscious minds!

Lol, love that interpretstion Perdix; speaking from experience divorce is a costly venture and had I listened to my 'cold feet' I wouldn't have gotten married in the first place

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56, some people live together without getting married (because they oppose idea of marriage). You might want to try that one.

I agree! I wish I had listened to my instincts. My divorce wasn't very costly, no lawyers involved, agreement on both sides that we didn't want anything from each other, no kids. But the emotional cost was worse.

56, I'm sure that if your marriage had succeeded you wouldn't be saying that your "cold feet" were right. As it was stated before, cold feet are simply nerves.

22 - I think you mean fiancé not fiancè.

Yeah, fever dreams can be extremely real and feel horrible. I mostly have jolly ones but theres the occasional sheet-clutching dreams that occur.

Honestly I think shes worried about whether or not she will make a good ex-wife. I always feel that talking with dad helps smooth things out.

I'll be honest I never got cold feet before marrying my wife. Not everyone gets them, however it is normal. Not sure how normal feverish dreams about getting married is though....

69 my 3 year old had a fever dream a free days ago, it was much like night terrors except she actually woke up and was very frightened. A dream that is vivid and seems real, much like pregnancy dreams.

3, I swear I thought your pic was the crazy stalker girlfriend meme until I looked closer. o.o

Hahaha I don't know if that's a compliment or not. ):

@46 That depends on whether or not you stalk your boyfriends.

...no, of course I don't...

Yeah, wedding jitters are very common and nightmares, upset stomach, etc. is perfectly normal. Talking to others (not your fiancee) about it should help OP. Give it a try! :)

I couldn't disagree more. Dreams. can sometimes relay messages from the sub conscience to a person, allowing them to be aware of some of the worries that were previously unknown. *The more you know*

33 - Dreams actually tend to be about what you did or thought about in that day, the idea of a subconcious and dreaming was the subconcious 'coming out' was the drug addict's hypothesis known as Freud. The more you 'actually' know.

37- So you agree that dreams have some sort of meaning then? That's the point I was making.

They don't really have a meaning from what studies have shown, just processing information from that day. They also act out scenarios to better eqiup you incase you found yourself in that situation, like preparation. Function and reason is different from meaning.

Ah okay. So know I know the next time I'm being chased by clowns yelling "You're a nobody", I probably shouldn't jump into a cartoonish black hole. :p

Vsauce?

No studoes show that people can be different what a study shows. I have had dreams about an ex that I think I may still have some feelings for. in the dream we got back together. I havnt talked to her in months and don't plan on ever seeing her again because of the way things ended. point is. I know that dream was about how I feel towards her and wishful thinking. also, OP interpreted her dream as a nightmare, showing her true feelings toward the dream.

42 - it sucks I can't remember any dreams, then. I guess I'll never be prepared for what my dreams are telling me.

I agree with 48, you turds need to watch more vsauce and stop getting info off of cereal boxes! :P

only a dream? the Internet told me that dreams come true and the Internet doesn't lie. Op should be terrified!

75- If that's true, I'm going to be kidnapped and beaten by Sean Connery and raped by George Clooney. ._.

75- I'm with you on that one, but the Internet has yet to explain why I'm still a virgin.

84 - Probably because you're at home asking the internet why you're still a virgin instead of outside talking to pretty girls...

...on top of Mt. Everest. If Mt. Everest was made of dry ice.

or a sin(x). cuze you can go through a lot of ups and downs both before and after getting married.

They could have had cos(x). Of course then at their wedding they'd need to bring Savage Garden back to en vogue to explain why.