YDI for not realizing after four years that he responds like this to surprises.

#26, people can be pretty unpredictable. Just because you know someone for a long time doesn't automatically mean that you'll know exactly how they'll react.

Also, who knows, maybe the OP's bf wanted to break up with her for a long and decided that this was a "valid" excuse

I'm rather impressed that you managed to stay together for so long, if he'll break up with you for something that minuscule.

jeez people. what he didnt like was how easy it was for her to lie to him, and how gullible he is to believe her. he was thinking ahead that "hey, maybe sometime in the future shell do so crazy shit and lie to me, and i would completely believe her!" like say she was cheating on him and lying about it. he would never know. and that probably freaked him out and worried him.

But still, that's an absurd reaction to a surprise party. Most people's thought would be 'she cares about me to go to this trouble', not 'could be a compulsive liar!'

that doesn't make any sense... its a surprise party. he's either just crazy or wanted an excuse to break up.

i agree with #72

Or he could be very very jelous or paranoid or a combination of both......be grateful he broke up with you now just imagine what he would accuse you of after you got married.

Why would she want him after he humiliated her like that? You think she's desperate?

Rainbow-laces, that is stupid of you to say. Your boyfriend breaks up with you and you take him back? Do you live your life waiting for him to "come around"? Is that really something you would tell OP to do? Hey he embarrassed you, it would be a lifetime of that, just wait a minute and let him take you back? That is saying OP did something wrong. That is saying OP deserves this.

i say, **** him. move on

I agree

YEAH! I agree.

thats really true

Well there's mostly only two types of FMLs fake or the OP is doing something illegal like shoplifting having weed in your car and no liscence etc.

Most likely #2

@#5 You're a retard, even if you don't like surprises, who wouldn't want someone that would go to all that trouble to do something like that for someone. But at the same time, I agree with #4.

That's a pretty dumb reason to break up with someone.

..That's a valid reason. That's what woman are for, why keep them aroudn if they're not doing their job? Especially on their birthday.. You think he wants to get laid by his guy friends Gonzo?

You are joking, right? First off, just because she threw him a surprise party doesn't mean that he was not gonna get laid later on. I'm sorry, but when you've been with someone that long, you should probably show them a little more respect than that.

Wow. Your an asshole. Woman aren't here just for sex. I bet your one of those jerks that just goes around trying to get laid and your fine with that for now. But your never going to find true love or a wife, and then you'll realize how lonely you are and how much of a sexist idiot you are.

Why is it always about sex? I don't care what the reason is, throwing someone a party is no reason to break up with them, UNLESS Op threw the party against Boyfriend's wishes and has been doing things like this for awhile.